I have been on The Cage ,"officially" since October 2020. I had spent a month to peruse before I got the nerve to join. I can't tell you how I felt when I clicked on the "submissive". Such a rush of relief to acknowledge who I am truly am. Since that time I have learned more, met people, had a couple of horrendous experiences (in retrospect, both could have been avoided if I knew what I was doing). In my naivete, I was hurt tremendously.
For three years, I've had a Dom who I am fully committed to, and we were deeply love. He continuely reminds me to "Trust The Magic" rather than leading with my analytical mind. A lesson I still need to learn. Hence, the title of my blog.
Blogging is a new thing for me. I still bring a newbies perspective (but slightly more weathered), complete with an AARP card and 50+ years of a Vanilla lifestyle. Perhaps a little late out the gate (God, I wish I had that 20-year-old body!), but if not now, when? So here goes...