Is a lot closer to home than most people realize.. a not so foreign.
I hear all the time how a Master and slave Dynamic is too extreme, too far out for them.
The truth is it's just a matter of respect and love for each other.
The terms themselves are more scarier then they dynamic.
Approach it like you should approach any relationship...
With communication, sincerity and frankness.
I am very frustrated. Apparently the connotations behind the word Master and slave.. stop people from exploring the lifestyle.
I have hearding budding Masters say I am not too you're level.. wait! Stop judging my dynamic give it a chance! This is real life...not fantasy.. I am not some guy walking around with a cat of nine tails all day...
By now any of those of you that know me, know that I'm a strong advocator for being cautious and safe. Particularly when dealing with new people in the lifestyle. By no means am I saying not to meet new people. Just the opposite. I'm a strong advocator of bringing new people in to our community.. but there is a need for using caution and simple boundaries..
Do not reveal personal information to quickly.. a name yes but a full name?
Someone wants to meet you.. meet at a public place.. preferably a munch with your friends you have in the community.. they can talk to the person and give you there feelings about the person afterwards...
I get it I'm preaching to the choir for most of you but a lot of you don't think of these things I've spent 15 years working in security and investigation... The stuff we do is dangerous yes fun kinky as all hell but we can do it safely there's no need to rush.
If you want to know more come out to one of our happy hour munchs, or message us and we will thru a munch Together for you so we can help you out...
If you need farther evidence read this news story... But don't read it for it's content read it for how they wrote it.. look at the spin they put on the "double life" and as far as I have read she wasn't even doing bdsm... imagine if she had been... They dont understand our desires.. and I don't blame them.. all the more reason to have a strong local community...check out the munchs in your area...please and be safe.. don't rush..
There are links to the news story out there.. you can find them if you so desire...
There's an unspoken connection between sadist and masochist...
We think differently. Yes most of us know we are fucked up.. but not all of us know that we need that balance in our life..
Well I might want a relationship where I can change a masochistu upin the basement for hours upon a Time...
Sometimes not everything we want is good for us... Just sometimes we need someone that can teach us how to love... And provide that balance for us..
When we find that person it takes work for us to put the energy into loving like people and not just play things.
This time next year I hope to be traveling internationally... Any recommendations for play spaces, events or dungeons to visit or kink Friendly places to go on the international stage?
Just an FYI Happy Hour Munch meets almost every Sunday night around 7.
We also host a Berks Educational Society, a Master and Slaves educational group meeting once a month.
Our kink house is going to Baltimore play house tonight!
Nothing more exciting then a SUV full of kinky people heading to a public dungeon .... In PJs for a pajamas party.
Yes, we are different.
We are the off balls and misfits.. even in our suits and pretty dresses.
Yes, we are different,
We may see sluts, angels, demons, victims, or even monsters in the mirror..
Yes, we are different.
We can center ourselves thru feeding that which others have suppressed..
When the play is done right, when the scene goes well...
And the pain flows..rope burns.. wax is melted and the knife is down..
The work stands still and for a brief time all is right in the world...
Yes, we are different..
We embrace the hardness of life and make it a game..
We dance with fate in the full light of pain and pleasure..
We are Sadiomasochist..
We are Riggers and Rope bunnies
We are fire sluts...
We are human..and proud to be different
We spend so much time limiting ourselfs sometimes we forget that the things we call staples in our lives... Were invented by risk takers... ....flight... electricity to name a few...
Be your good damn self a stop trying to conform to society...
Everyone nowadays seems so wrapped up in their identity, roles or labels.. labels are a nuisance but to a certain level a necessity.
You will hear in lifestyle all kinds of names, labels and whatever creative thing people can come up with to try to make themselves even more unique, even more special in an attempt to more accurately describe "them".
Can we cut to the chase.
These are parameters that I operate within.
Top. Controls the Body
Dominant. Controls the Body and Mind
Master. Controls the Body Mind and Soul
Bottom. Surrenders the Body
Submissive. Surrenders the Body and Mind
Slave. Surrenders the Body Mind and Soul
Just my perspective, As I see people getting caught up too much in fancy labels..
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