By now any of those of you that know me, know that I'm a strong advocator for being cautious and safe. Particularly when dealing with new people in the lifestyle. By no means am I saying not to meet new people. Just the opposite. I'm a strong advocator of bringing new people in to our community.. but there is a need for using caution and simple boundaries..
Do not reveal personal information to quickly.. a name yes but a full name?
Someone wants to meet you.. meet at a public place.. preferably a munch with your friends you have in the community.. they can talk to the person and give you there feelings about the person afterwards...
I get it I'm preaching to the choir for most of you but a lot of you don't think of these things I've spent 15 years working in security and investigation... The stuff we do is dangerous yes fun kinky as all hell but we can do it safely there's no need to rush.
If you want to know more come out to one of our happy hour munchs, or message us and we will thru a munch Together for you so we can help you out...
If you need farther evidence read this news story... But don't read it for it's content read it for how they wrote it.. look at the spin they put on the "double life" and as far as I have read she wasn't even doing bdsm... imagine if she had been... They dont understand our desires.. and I don't blame them.. all the more reason to have a strong local community...check out the munchs in your area...please and be safe.. don't rush..
There are links to the news story out there.. you can find them if you so desire...