A wonderful and enchanting welcome back
Last time I explained what hypnosis truly is and gave a brief look into the community with it. Today I want to explain what hypnosis can do, the possibilities and truth along with some examples to help give a better overall understanding.
If you haven't read my last post, I highly advise doing so before continuing to read this one, because I will reference several explanations.
As you already know by now, hypnosis is nothing more than a state of focus and that at all times you are completely aware and awake during it. Still even knowing those things, people on stage hypnosis still seem like they are mindlessly obeying orders. Seems contradictory. But there's actually a simple reason. I mentioned that stage hypnotists are very good at reading people, choosing those who will bring the most entertaining show. I won't go deeper into how such people are chosen, but what makes those people to be chosen is, that most often they are somnambulists.
Somnambulist is nothing more than a fancy word for a person who has high suggestibility. And understandably, on stage as the hypnotist, you want your suggestions you give during trance to work, and that's most likely to happen with somnambulists.
Though saying someone is a somnambulist is a difficult task. See, everyone accepts suggestions differently, some accept them easier and some harder. But ALL people do. There are enough people in the hypnosis community starting to dive into it only to notice they don't accept suggestions as well as other people, and they think they are doing something wrong and that they are bad subjects. That's far from it. There is no distinct separation between people who are somnambulists and those who aren't.
I noticed that most somnambulists share the same thought structure and behavior which allows them to accept suggestions this well. But everyone can learn to accept suggestions. And that's what I want people to understand. First, what you see on stage are special cases, people who accept suggestions exceptionally well and that is not the normality for each hypnotic interaction. Second, everyone starts somewhere and can improve on becoming a better subject, no matter what anyone says. In fact, it's very likely that the person you see suggestions working so well in the hypnosis community has worked months or years to get to this point, and that's perfectly fine. It's not the sub's fault if something doesn't instantly work, together with your hypnotist work out a solution, find worries which stop you from letting go and work together to achieve your goals.
I will give a very short explanation of how to potentially improve your suggestibility. Keep in mind, that every person is different and that it's such a deep topic that I will only scratch the surface for now.
One problem is allowing yourself to let go, and not because of your partner, but because you feel uncomfortable with the feeling. In such a case, try meditating yourself, instead of focusing to accept big suggestions and dive deep into trance depths, try to feel more comfortable with the feeling of trance itself. Relaxation and comfort hypnosis is what will help.
Another problem is fearing the effects, that something might happen which you don't want. In this case, it's important to find someone with who you can build your trust. Find someone with whom you can slowly get comfortable, and the more comfortable you get, the more trust you have, the more easily you will be able to let go and actually accept suggestions. Another technique that works but which I don't advise you to try unless you TRULY trust your partner. Let your partner drop you into a trance and go into a direction suggestion-wise in which you are uncomfortable. This requires the hypnotist to know what they are doing, to be trustful, and to actually help make you notice that you are unable to be forced to do something you don't want to do. In my opinion, get comfortable, find a partner with whom you build trust (which is always a good plan) and allow yourself to become comfortable with hypnotic suggestions over time.
A big problem are therapeutic reasons, trauma, flashbacks, etc. And in such cases, please, stop trying hypnosis and seek professional help. Hypnosis can trigger flashbacks and increase the trauma if not done properly. It's no shame in admitting you need help, so please, don't push yourself and risk anything getting worse. Once your problems are cleared, you will have a much easier time. But all of us want to have a good time, so lets all work together to achieve that
If you want any more help on how to better accept suggestions, let me know in the comments.
Besides the topic of suggestibility, how good you accept suggestions, it's also important to know what suggestions you won't accept. Every person has core beliefs, their very own and personal beliefs which they formed over years while growing up. And those beliefs are your guidelines so to speak. No one is able to make you do anything inside those core beliefs.
Now it's important to know what those core beliefs are. Because right here right now reading my words, you surely would agree that you wouldn't want to play a cat on stage or cluck like a chicken, yet people do so, are they freaks who actually want that? No, they aren't. It's simply that clucking like a chicken is not inside their core beliefs.
Let's give an example, for almost all people one core belief is, that they don't want to hurt themselves. So you won't be able to make a subject with this belief hurt themselves on purpose. Though clucking like a chicken isn't in those core beliefs. So when you get such a suggestion on stage your mind thinks "Hmm, why not? Nothing I am going to do goes against my beliefs, so why not?". And they start clucking like a chicken. In this example you can also understand another property of hypnosis/trance, you are only aware of what is going on with you. You aren't aware anymore that a crowd of people is around you, everything is blurred out. That's why there is no shame. But let's not dive deeper into it.
To give a last example, imagine a person being hypnotized and told the suggestion to go dig a tunnel and rob that bank. If the person being given this suggestion thinks it's highly unethical, then they won't accept this suggestion, they won't do it. But if they always wanted to do so and maybe even planned it a little, then sure, they will go ahead and follow along. It's an extreme example, but one that will hopefully make you understand what is meant with core beliefs.
In the end, what is important for you to know, hypnosis is unable to make you do anything you don't want to. No one can force you into anything you don't want to.
After explaining suggestibility and also the contra, your core beliefs, I now want to dive into some examples. Because many people understand it wrong. Be aware, that those examples are not mandatory and neither are they beginning scenarios, they are advanced kinky scenarios to show a slice of what is possible.
As an example, many people think that when I say hypnosis can turn you into a real pet for pet play, that they are actually physically growing paws and fur, etc. Even though they are half right, they are wrong. Yes, hypnosis can change bodily physic, and yes for the subject it might be like growing paws and fur, but all those changes are only imaginary, mentally. Hypnosis will trick your mind into thinking and experiencing it so to speak. Everything your senses pick up is processed by your mind. If you smell a sweet smell, your brain processes it and you experience it. And this processing is changed during hypnosis. So instead of tasting something sour when biting into a lemon, you are able to taste something sweet, because your brain is now making you experience it differently. And that's the same for the pet play example. You might see and feel like having paws and fur or only being able to woof instead of talking, but that's only how your mind processes it and makes you experience it. It's important to know this.
Now let's dive into some deliciously kinky examples, shall we?
You can make someone cum on command, and there's nothing more delicious leaning close and whispering her trigger into her ear while watching her squirm in mindless pleasure as she happily cums from one single word.
In combination with cumming on command, you can also make someone unable to cum. This is especially useful when doing edging or in general orgasm denial.
Sensitivity can be increased or decreased. Especially people who are into sensory deprivation will enjoy toying with such suggestions: But I find generally increasing sensitivity in usually non-erotic zones of the body is fun.
Make your sub unable to stop saying every kinky thought they have. It's a wonderful mind to tease and mess with the sub as well as getting an honest sneak peek into her mind.
Like I already mentioned, being turned into a pet, being made to act and behave like one. Many people also enjoy becoming a hucow and having breasts in the focus of the fun and pleasure.
Giving new kinks, and I am not talking about going over limits. But how about giving a tree fetish? Okay, that maybe instead of trees a fetish which the dom has and the sub is okay with but simply never had any arousal coming from it. With the flick of a finger, it can be turned into a raging turn-on.
An intense feeling of control, submission, and surrender can be achieved with hypnosis, far more intense than in regular BDSM
One commonly found kink is bimbofication and dollification.
There are so many more kinks, scenarios, ideas, experiences, etc. which could be talked about. But that's a tiny slice of the possibilities of those who are easy to understand without much explanation while at the same time being an informative one.
Keep in mind, each their own. And also, like I already mentioned all those examples are advanced scenarios. If you are a beginner, slowly dive and be guided into hypnosis. Doing so will allow you to enjoy advanced scenarios much more.
Plus, who doesn't love relaxation hypnosis, simply having fun without sexuality, or cuddling, feeling happy and good? I may have focused on the sexual examples of hypnosis, but that's because this whole blog is about erotic hypnosis and mental play. Never forget that there is so much more in a relationship. And its so wonderful once truly embraced
I hope like always you were able to follow my explanations and got a good understanding of what hypnosis truly is, and what is possible with it.
If you have any questions, feel free to ask in the comments. Everyone is welcome to share their own experiences with erotic hypnosis or maybe share their favorite suggestions? And you don't need to have experienced hypnosis yourself, simply let us know what sounds most interesting to you.
With that, I wish you a wonderful, happy, relaxing, and enchanting day.
TFM
