I had a great conversation with a new friend today and with her permission I'm so gonna use this!
Everyone here blogs about what they are feeling. As a submissive you have to understand our brains never stop. We analyze everyone's blogs and think oh crap did I do something wrong. I personally do this a lot. I find myself reading blogs by people I've interacted with and then go dang that was about me. Now please know its not because I have a big head it's because my need to please people and then thinking I have hurt or upset them flips my world upside down. So I then go off on this tail spin of two emotions anger because how dare they or disappointment in myself because how dare i.
I also am one who pours my heart out here and expressed my whole journey, I admit my mistakes, celebrate my triumphs, cry my tears, and LMFAO. I tell people all the time my blogs are not about you it's about me and my journey. If I write about someone they are privy to that information and I post it after they have read it.
So saying all that I have to say IF THE SHOE FITS WEAR IT Cinderfuckinella. Figure out why it fits you and then work on you where you think your lacking.
I am far from perfect, hell I dont wanna be perfect. I am a work in progress who for the time being is numb but that is no reason to kick a person while they are down. Lets grow up and be the adults we claim to be and not joke about or talk about people when they are hurting. There are real people on the other side of these blogs. Yes your blog is your space too but do you really want to look back and see the negativity you were sending out in the universe?
I had my joy for a few short weeks, I am so thankful that from that I have an amazing friend who I will always be there for (I said it, I meant it) I wont let someone elses words effect me or hurt me because your shoes can be left in the box at the store they dont fit me
This Cinderella is running barefoot into the forest!
