Waiting

Morning.

You stretch out on the bed, languidly in the soft morning light. Naked and available, just as you should be around me.

Showing your aches and marks from a challenging night: spanked hard and with real stripes and signs of obedience and control shown. Shown with pride. Shown with delight.

A sigh turns into a squeak as I trace my hands and fingers over your body, reminding you of your place and devotion to me.

Moving the covers out of the way I part your legs, kiss you lightly and your vision blurs as I have what is mine, TOTALLY mine.

Canvas

You are my canvas, right now and forever.

Smooth and soft, malleable and flexible, bending and bowing to my needs but respectful of yours.

In public, close and polite to each other, holding hands, gentle strokes, admiring and loving glances. Plenty of eye contact, almost accidentally brushing up against you BUT a subtle reminder of who you are and where your place is.

Beneath your clothes, the canvas tells a different and very powerful story: impressions on your skin where I have tied you, raised welts on your bottom, gorgeous pinkness on your outer and inner thighs, bruising on your bottom.

Aching and tender nipples, hard at the mere thought of me, very sensitive and pert from the clamps I Order you to wear.

Blooms and stripes of red remind you when sitting down that spankings and Resets are the norm and that they will deepen to purple, then green and yellow before fading away, before new ones are given for you to cherish.

Peeking at them in the bathroom when you are getting dry, their presence a very clear reminder of your Owned status.

You are my canvas, coloured and shaped by me alone.

Late

You are late, that annoys me. The Table was booked for 2pm and it is now 2.15pm.

You know you are late, you know I do not like lateness and that I will be annoyed.

This is not a good start to the afternoon. No use looking all flustered and blaming it on the traffic, you should have set off earlier, in plenty of time.

My stern voice really lets you know I am displeased. Gruff, grumpy, unhappy and feeling disrespected.

I put it to one side and we enjoy the meal. Anyone seeing us would just consider us a nice, safe, vanilla couple.

While you are eating your mind runs through what will happen when we get home: Sir hates lateness and he has a long memory. Is your chattiness and attention enough to make him forget?

You SO know the answer already!

You know that punishment is coming from the way that I squeeze your bottom and steer you to the car using your bottom as a steering wheel. Light spanks emphasise Control as we move across the car park.

Just the start as you know there will be many hard spanks when home. A lot. A very large number, accompanied by having your clit teased and eaten.

Just what you had been craving when you sat outside the restaurant at 1.50pm, playing on your phone until 2.15pm.

Don’t think I didn’t already know this …………………………

The Importance of Maintenance

In giving yourself to me there will always be a need for ensuring that your commitment and focus remains as high as it can be. Having a sloppy and laissez-faire attitude will ALWAYS be corrected the moment I senses that such feelings and attitude is showing.

There is always the human frailty that creeps into your mind, doing things with less than 100% focus and drive.

I will remove that from you.

Will I notice when you cut corners, when you do not try as hard as you possibly can to be the best submissive that you can be, when you only just put enough effort into a Task or an Order or when you show me disrespect?

Yes!

Will I be satisfied with that half-hearted, complacent and poor approach that you give me?

You know the answer to the question already!

No!

Maintenance keeps your focus and reminds you when I am not there that you are Owned and that your attention will only be in one place.

Maintenance will be whatever and whenever I decide it to be.

When you are being spanked I expect you to recognise the importance of that pain and warmth as a clear reminder of your place, and the need to constantly improve and develop in the way that I want. The redness and sting will focus you on this, knowing that I will not hesitate to make this a regular feature of your submission to me.

When you receive the Order to play and cum I expect this to be a very exciting session for me to watch and for you to enjoy, gaining enjoyment from getting permission, as it pleases me but as secondary, enjoyment for yourself.

I will set you Tasks to complete as they keep you on your proverbial toes and develop you, something that is very important to me.

Never take me for granted and assume that just bumbling along will be enough.

It will not.

For my Submissive

The Connection

The exchange of power in what we have makes us strong and durable: my strength makes you weak but I am here to protect and develop you.

You are safe, always, even if you may feel vulnerable at times. You have nothing to fear: Sir only wants the best for you.

You are free, empowered, yet bound to me, captivated by the way your Sir makes you feel.

You know I can have you, take anything from you, however I desire it to be.

You are intimately connected to your Sir and you crave that dominance, that direction, that commitment and overpowering desire to submit, to satisfy and please only me.

I will be firm and gentle with how I show my love for you.

You will feel empowered and humble by the ways in which I direct you to satisfy me.

You will always want and always need to delight your Sir

For my Submissive

I want you to stand next to me, always me, your Sir, always, respectful and dedicated.
I want you to stand next to me confident in your beauty and submission.
I want you to stand next to me because you simply cannot imagine standing next to anyone else.
Ever,

Owned

I Own you.

I want your sleepy, confused look when you wake up.

I am the warmth that is there in your bed.

I am the blanket that you seek out in the dark when you are cold, giving you that reassurance that you need.

I see your passions and thoughts all of the time: you hide nothing from me.

I will have no hesitation in correcting you and putting you in your place, in public or in private.

I know your flaws, all of them.

I will not hesitate to Reset your thinking in any way I think fit.

I am in the deepest, darkest corners of your mind.

I will always want to see you develop, be more for yourself, and for what we have.

You will chase and deliver what I crave.

Sir.

Being Owned

In the space of your gasp, when I put my hand on your throat, on your neck, when I touch your clit, spank your bottom, or whatever I choose to do to you, I will be within your walls, calming and focusing you and your thoughts.

I will Own and invade your mind, just as my physical presence invades your awareness and feelings.

You will feel my pressure and control, growing and filling you, coursing and raging through your very soul; touching places that no one has ever reached before, or ever will.

I am the fever, the heat, the passion that drives you from within, tingling and rippling across your skin.

I will calm you and excite you at the same time.

I will be the wall that imprisons your heart and makes you totally mine.

I will be the key that truly sets you free.

Sir

Be submissive to me, always, never deviate from this.

This is absolutely central to your duty to me.

Abstinence will focus your mind on me, me alone and my Gift will be letting you cum. However to receive that Gift you know that you will have to work hard. Very hard.  

Your dedication and focus keeps your attention where it should always be.

Give yourself to me in every way you can and then think hard and ask yourself have I lived up to Sir's standards and have I pleased him?

Key Words That Are Essential For My Submissive

The following for me really capture the power of the relationship between myself and my Submissive as they permeate through every part of our connection. They are cornerstones for the relationship and give certainty and structure.

Acceptance: knowing that The Rules, protocols and routines are set and that they will be there until Sir decides otherwise. This gives assurance when she is doubtful or troubled, knowing that Sir is there to guide and instruct.

Obedience: knowing that Sir’s Orders must be followed to the letter but also knowing that these are set for her development, growth and to make her the best Submissive that she can be.

Dedication: knowing that the focus on Sir is of paramount importance in all that she does, thinks and works towards. Family and work/career are very important alongside this but loyalty and commitment to Sir are essential.

Permission: knowing that Permission is needed where decisions need to be made. Again, this is all about Dedication and Obedience.

Control: knowing that Sir can direct behaviour, choices, physical position and Tasks to demonstrate that I am present even when there is physical distance between us. Control is essential, small but simple examples show this as does setting more difficult and challenging Tasks.

Reminders of the Five Words should not be necessary but form the basis of any Attitude Adjustment that may be required when things slip or when behaviour becomes wayward.