So I had an interesting interaction today with someone new here. I was just doing the usual and checking out the blogs when I came across a blog from a newer person. (No Names Given)
I did my usual thing and read it and then also read the profile. This left me with many questions so I reached out to the person and asked some clarification questions on their post.
To clarify, this person used "I Want" more times then i care to mention. Both the post and the profile were all about them and what they wanted. So I asked them. politely, what they brought to the table? I also asked a few other questions with respect to what they knew about the lifestyle and so on.
Instead of answering the questions, this person stonewalled me. They wouldn't give a straight answer or answer at all.
Instead they came at me with this fake spiritual crap like they were some type of mystic or guru.
I asked them about a specific word that they are throwing around and they couldn't give me a proper answer on that either. This word I happen to know very well by the way.
Instead, they just carried on and stonewalled me without any clarification on anything. It was like talking to a bot, and not an intelligent one at that.
This person is obviously new but has it in their head that they are a certain type that doesn't need to answer any ones questions. And my questions were legit.
I warned them that in our Lifestyle, we can smell an insta or wnnabe from a mile away.
Yes, me being me, I called him out on his own post.
The moral of this is to be carful when you are reading stuff and when the conversation in the post and/or profile is all about "I Want" This should be a red flag. The bigger issue is when you are asking questions and they stonewall you or do not give direct answers. That is when you should turn and run.
I am not saying this to those of us that have been here for a while and know the games these people play. This is for those that are newer and happen to run across my blog and read it.
Ask questions and get answers. If they don't want to answer, you should walk away immediately.
And what I mean is directly answering your questions with no BS attached.
As for the person I spoke to, they blocked me, deleted the post, scrubbed my comments, reposted, and then wrote another post lying about what happened. How do I know.....
A Little Birdie told Me.
We are community and we do watch out for one another.
To you insta's and wannabe's. I will say this once more. We can smell your BS from a mile away and we will call you out.
To those of you that are new - Be you. Know that you don't know and don't try to pretend. All of us started out not knowing shit. And that is okay.
Until next time, here is a new artist i was introduced to. 🔥🔥🔥