“Being a Dom is easy!”
O beg your fucking pardon? If a D type ever says that to you, turn and run as fast as you can in the other direction. It is far from “easy” if you are doing it 24/7.
There are so many things that you are overseeing on a daily basis as a 24/7 Dom, that if you are not keeping it written down, you will end up falling short of responsibilities and expectations. (Trust me, I know)
Then there is looking after the well being of your sub(s).
Then there is making sure the you are doing self care.
Then there is the day to day living things like work pressures and maintaining home stuff and etc….
So excuse me when I say “Fuck off” when you tell me being a Dom is easy.
That means 1 of 2 things to me. Either you are not a 24/7 or you are just a wanna be that watched 50 Shades to many times.
Now with that being said, I wouldn’t change a thing. It is who I am.
I can’t separate it out of me. (I know because I tried). In some of us, we are just naturally drawn to being a Dom and it runs through or veins.
No matter how difficult, we push forward because we can not “not be”.
It is just like when a sub says that they are submissive in nature, so am I Dominant by nature.
Take this writing as you will. But do not ever tell me that it is easy, or should be easy.
Not when I live it 24/7.
Here is on for our Favorite Crowd, The Insta's and Wannabes.
Goes with SBD's Post - https://thecage.co/blog/userblog.php?blog_id=68569&view=latest