Have you ever talked to someone about things in lifestyle and you find that what they perceive to be reality is nothing more than fantasy?
With all of the YouTube, pornhub, and other crap out there, people are more and more looking at the fantasy side of things instead of looking at the reality of the lifestyle.
They think or in-vision that a dynamic is going to be this perfect little place where nothing ever goes wrong and their lives are now perfect in this realm.
I hate to be the one that burst the bubbles of the ones out there that think this is the case. Real life and real dynamics are not what you see on TV!!!
We all still deal with the same things as people not in lifestyle. It is not like we Doms are walking around in Leather pants and vests with a single tail strapped to our sides like Indiana Jones. Our subs are not following us around 24/7 in a white low cut sleeveless dress, with the slits on the side all the way up to the hip. This is all fantasy.
what we are are hard working people that live a kinky lifestyle. For some of us it is 24/7 and we do not switch in and out of roles. For others, it is only in the bedroom. And others, online only.
So please, for the love of all that is kinky, please stop acting like the fantasy is the reality, when the reality is that we are not in the Story of O. Stop with those expectations.
Sorry, had to vent.
