I like aggressive, controlling, possessive, sadistic men that are equally caring and loving.
I love attention; time and communication need to be given freely. I love great conversations. I want you to be outspoken, make your intentions and expectations clear without ambiguity.
Rules and structure are important to me. I want you to get to know me as a person, what makes my mind tick, likes, and dislikes.
A sub is equal to a dom. My needs and desires are equal.
Submitting takes time. Don’t request me to give you anything right away.
Romance is nice sometimes, too.
I want you to want me to hurt for you and tell me that I am a good girl. The need for you wanting to make me yours is huge. The question “Who do you belong to?” makes my heart melt. Equally, I enjoy you asking me "Whose whore are you?".
What I enjoy from the dominant side, is the leadership and responsibility. Responsibility is how I feel he expresses love and care for me. Anybody can grab a hand full of hair and use their sub forcefully. However, I want you to make sure I am are ok and has a presence that only requires a look.
Deep trust and intimacy are important to me - feeling an emotional/sexual sanctuary. Knowing that I can be emotionally completely naked. I want to feel comfortable kneeling before you and talking about whatever is troubling me, what I am thinking about too much, or what has me curious. I want to feel no need for privacy and modestly because I belong to you; in good and bad.
I'm pleasing by nature and want to make my partner happy in sexual and non-sexual ways. It gives me a sense of accomplishment and self-worth. I love to surprise you by waking you up in the morning in a special way, cooking your favorite meal naked, setting up a bath, buy tickets to your favorite sports game, and see if we can find a private spot there to be intimate.
Not being in control goes along with not knowing what will happen next. I like the uncertainty and “danger” as I'm never prepared for where the session will take me. I enjoy being powerless and for my partner to take over complete control. There's something that makes me feel very safe about that specific dynamic once I trust is built.
I prefer a 24/7 dynamic. Communicating meal preferences in restaurants but you will order for me, not changing my appearance without receiving permission, no panties around you for easy access, me checking in every morning, noon and evening, sending a picture every morning, etc.
I am into belts (my favorite place is having my neck in a belt!), biting, blindfolds, bondage, chains, choking, collar/leashes, hair pulling, spanking, orgasm control, and all kinds restraints. Open to discussing whatever else you enjoy as trust is built and the relationship evolves.
