My Random Thoughts

Master13​(dom male){MajesticLy} - Sorry - but yes a lot dont even read your profile unfortunately.
They immediately go into prey mode.

I did see one sub do something That I thought was very cool.

In her profile she put if you want to chat put “ something Potatoes” in the subject line or I will not respond.

I thought that was soo cool
😁😁😁😁😁

Jack in the box - True, unfortunately

Jack of all doms​(dom male) - Comment deleted by poster.

Jack of all doms​(dom male) - We live in a paratracheal society in which men are raised, especially white, Christian men, that this is their society and as its apex predator they are entitled to take whatever they want. Indeed, white men are often shamed by other white men for not being dominate enough over women and non-white men, e.g., its not enough for some to be a bully but you need to drag any reluctant white men over the edge with you.

For me, personally, I prefer if a prospective partner puts ANY deal breaking terms right up front so as to not waste my or their time. For every woman I've met who agree with you that they don't like men much older or younger than your age, I've met women who were the opposite and found some type of major age gap to be a major draw for them. Since there is really no way to tell which way any particular woman will think on this, I love it when a women expresses her preference or desires right up front in general.

Sadly though, yes I agree with Master13--there are a lot of men who won't take the time to bother to read your profile, but that's their problem not yours. Don't let them make their selfishness and insensitivity into your problem.

HeyLittleOne​(sub female) - I don't really believe it to be a matter of gender or race; if somebody is going to be inconsiderate and pushy, then they will be inconsiderate and pushy, regardless of their demographic. Some people exhibit this type of behavior unfortunately, but it can come from anyone. I think that we may notice it more from men not only because we fit what that person is looking for (submissive females as opposed to, say, switch males), but this site also seems to have a greater majority of Dominant males.
I have stated in my profile that I am not interested in a relationship, nor am I interested in females for that matter, but I have still been approached by countless Dommes that clearly haven't read my profile. I've also been contacted by a lot of submissives trying to convince ME to be THEIR Domme 🥴
Some people, no matter their age or gender or race or whatever else, simply do not have the care to take a moment to read someone's profile before approaching them. It's just too much effort for some, I suppose =P

Sir Don​(dom male){Nt looking} - Okay just my opinion . I read your whole profile
The problem is the age gap part you state is buried way to deep in your book of a profile and they being the ones you do not desire are not going to read through that much. Maybe that should be one of the first things they read .. IMHO

Grey Eyes​(sub female){Owned} - Agreed. I made the primary statements that I want other people to read in the first two paragraphs of my too lengthy profile. It has made all the difference.

Jlicious​(sub female) - Totally agree with SirDon and GreyEyes make that your primary statement. If that doesn’t work then they probably didn’t put on their thick glasses to read your profile properly and don’t respect your wishes .

Balthezor​(dom male) - It happens, some don’t read anything, I think more just don’t care. It does happen to men too, not often, but I’ve had it happen. I guess it’s just life on the Internet.