As a sub I want to make sure my domme is happy and comfortable. I also want to make sure I’m the best sub I can be. The thing I don’t hear about a lot is during and after care for doms/dommes. I have heard a little bit about how to give doms/dommes after and during care but not a lot. When I find the right domme for me and make sure I’m the right sub for them I want to be able to give them what they need for their during and after care. I know communication and words of affirmation are key but I want to learn what more I can do to make sure my domme is happy with the dynamic we share. The only thing I can think of is letting them know that it’s okay and I want what is happening. So I want to learn what more I could do. I’m doing my best to learn on my own and being inexperienced makes it a little hard but I’m determined to be the best sub I can and learn what I can. I know during and after care is different for everyone and you should talk about it with your dom/domme. However, if anyone has advice or tips on this I would greatly appreciate it.
Also I hope you’re having a good day/night. If not I’m sorry, I know it can be hard sometimes, hang in there.