SquidInk

A New Beginning

Hello from your neighbourhood Squid. I have been interested in elements of BDSM from quite a young age, specifically primal play. Despite this it is only recently that I decided to finally reach out and connect with the community. After seeing the blogs of other members I figured it would be interesting to do one from the perspective of a fledgling so that I can have a personal record of my own development. And hey, who knows, maybe it will benefit some other individuals who are still new to this world! Because its okay to make mistakes, we're all human after all!

Gender and Taste

3 years ago. March 29, 2021 at 3:47 PM

Good Afternoon all! Welcome to another Squid installment.

Recently I have been thinking about fantasies in general. You know, self exploration and all that. So you know what I have noticed as an LGBTQ+ member? My tastes in BDSM seem to vary depending on which gender. I wonder if anyone else has had this experience?

I have very little interest acting as a dom for males despite my bratty side. Now on the other hand, women, oh boy do my protective juices get flowing when the person in question is cute with a harmless disposition. If the other woman is a dominant individual, it doesn't seem to trigger this particular instinct.

Full disclosure, I have not had the opportunity to sleep with another woman but a girl can dream right?

SquidInk

LunarEclipse(sub female) - Agreed! Though I never have the desire to Top, I find that I have an overwhelming desire to submit to men, but with women it's less so. I would much prefer the woman be another submissive and we both serve our own Doms but get to play together if that makes sense.

3 years ago

dollMaker(dom male) - As a queer pan sexual my energies are somewhat different when the person I am playing with has different genitalia. My preference is feminine energy, be it CIS, Trans or Gender Fluid, but I tend to be more sadistic when the poor lamb has the bits to be in a cock cage.

3 years ago

B L O N D I E(sub female) - I'm a bi woman and I'm submissive with men and dominant with women.

3 years ago

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