So for those of you who found your way here by way of watching a movie, reading an erotic tale, or being curious of all those funny tickle toys in the back of your local Spencers:
I truly do understand how it feels to finally be sitting in the Willy Wanna Factory of Kinkland. So many questions and wonders of All the bright and shiny wrappers of new delights, All the new packaging of characters to choose from and mystery favors from the far of land of Taboo.
Now what? Now you want the secret to finding that perfect Lifestyle that brought you in.You look and look but its just not quite like you pictured in your mind.
Here is what I would suggest, humbly, you consider as you cash in your Golden ticket here online:
Check out the sights, sounds and aromas. Observe the what and how those around you are partaking in their chosen treats. Look beyond the costumes and flair of the characters with their temping treats.
Those characters in that movie, that plot in the story and that back shelf display just went from the fiction of another persons mind and your fantasy to a harsh reality. Underneath all the glitz and glamour of that shiny ticket was just a plain piece of truth. The way you get into the lifestyle and find your way is no different than normal life.
Want to know how to be a good Dom/sub? Well guess what Jimmy/Jane, its the same as being any position in life. It takes researching, learning and perfecting the recipe of your particular kink.
It takes more than just jumping in and throwing all the ingredients in the Kink mixer and hoping your favor is going to be the same as everyone else's lollipop.
It requires removing those rose colored glasses so you can clearly see that this isn't a cookie cutter lifestyle. That the aroma that brought you in is just one of the many chocolate chips in the batter.
So please please please stop asking where Christian Grey is, how to be the perfect Gorian Slave or Why you can't get anyone to make you feel that tickle the feather flogger promised.
Youre on this sight so I know you know how to read. Pick up one of those NON FICTION books on the lifestyle and Find YOU not Christian or Beauty in the knowledge you gain.
Try researching the information on this site as well as a deluge of other sites. Where you can find those who have paved and shared their wealth of knowledge. Take the facts and knowledge you gain and find your own unique ingredient to add to the candy bowl.
I am not trying to pop that pretty balloon of hopes and dreams you brought with you. I do hope though that you can start to realize that the fantasy that brought you here is not likely to be the reality you find if you fail to look beyond the fiction.
I can tell you this though...what you can have once you find that reality can and will be far better and beautiful than any fiction or fantasy.
