My dream V-day date...
It's all about Her. Making Her feel special.
Whatever Her favorite restaurant is, I'll take her there. I'll meet Her for lunch, at her work, wherever that is, and take her out.
We'll take a twilight walk up into the hills and watch the sunset. Well, maybe not; there's sleet and freezing rain coming down right now. Dangit, why did they have to put Valentines Day in the middle of winter? So, when the weather gets better. Maybe a trip to the hot springs. Well, last time we tried that, it was packed like sardines with couples. Probably not happening either.
We'll stay in then. Or maybe go out somewhere nice for dinner, then stay in.
Whatever Her favorite movie is, we'll curl up by the fire and watch it together.
Obligatory box of chocolates? Check. I'll make sure it's Her favorite flavors.
And when I present it to Her, I'll reaffirm my devotion to Her.
Whatever I can do around the house to help Her, I'll do it.
Then, that night, we'll be intimate. But the details? That is of course up to Her!. (Nope you don't get a cringe erotic story here. Personal lives are personal!)
But I'd like to think that I'd do these things each and every day for the one whom I feel is that special to me. Not simply because the calendar says Feb.14th and Hallmark, See's Candys, and every commercial establishment is pressuring me to.
I know said this last year, but I'll repeat it again: For those of us without valentines day dates, lets get fucking drunk.
And I'll conclude by saying goodbye and best of luck to Lambsone. She was always one of the people on the forums, and in these blogs, who I really admired as a classy and wonderful person. She made her last blog entry earlier today. I hope she, and every one else here on this journey together, finds what they seek, or at least, that gives them fulfillment and joy.