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Rose's Thorns.

A general pondering.
1 month ago. Jun 27, 2020, 5:07 AM

When does life become fun? Ive had enough of things being tough. I don't want to keep banging my head against a door that isn't going to open. Feeling a little hopeless.

changeling​(sub female) - I know what you mean. I've been feeling like I've had to be strong and hold it together for too long without enough time to just let go for a little while. It's been hard.

I'm trying to let my own submissive training soothe me for the moments that I have with it, but...I've definitely been struggling to be ok.
1 month ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - Mee too. Hopefully we will get there
1 month ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - Im just so tired of it all
1 month ago
changeling​(sub female) - I know. I wish I could say to hold on for a little bit longer but...

We just have to take those breaths whenever we can get our heads above water again.

Sorry you're struggling, too. It's pretty dang hard out there.
1 month ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - Thanks. I hope things get better for you too x
1 month ago
Dyaclez - Thanks for sharing.. I have to agree, its pretty hard out there these days. i wish i had answers, or a magic potion that would make it better. I wish I had the means to make everyone everywhere get along.. but like my dad said, if wishes were candy we would eat them all day. For me, I have to find the bits of joy that still remain.. floating on the wind like dandelion spores, find, chase them, cherish them, and let that little bit of joy, like a drop of water in the desert get you to the next oasis.
1 month ago
Fornicus​(dom male) - I would offer platitudes of, “Its always darkest before the dawn.” and such. But in my experience it seems more like, “It’s always darkest before it turns pitch black.”

I assure you that nothing is permanent. All things and feelings will pass. I’ve also found that the things I viewed as soul crushing in the moment are often looked back on as not so bad and often times, the “bad” times lead me to the “best” times.

My heart goes out to you. If you need to talk it out or just vent, feel free to message me.
1 month ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - Thanks for sharing. I might take you up on that
1 month ago
Fornicus​(dom male) - Any time, love
1 month ago
Jack in the box -
In life there is a balance
An up for every down
Sometimes you are sad
Sometimes you're the clown
You cant see it while you're in it
But looking back you will.
Sometimes you're in a hole
Sometimes - top of the hill
1 month ago
Sir Don​(dom male){Grey Eyes} - I agree with Jack. I am a fifm believer in things happen for a reason and life will get better
1 month ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - Thanks you guys x
1 month ago
Bunnie - If there’s anything the last few years have taught me, it’s that life really, simply just isn’t fair. And the harder we hold onto the notion of believing that it should be, the more distressed we make ourselves.

Sometimes we’ve just got to let go of how we think things should be, and work towards learning to try to make the best with what we’ve got. That doesn’t mean to not hope for better... but more, rather than waiting to be (insert whatever), trying on enjoying whatever we can each step of the way.
Your time will come, my friend *big hugs*
1 month ago
Sweet Ginger​(sub female){Daddy ⚓} - Sorry your going through this! We all have times when we feel this way., your not alone! We all experience these feelings.. Take days one at a time, baby steps .. Getting it out, through journaling here or diary is therapeutic. Also talking with people your close to, doing things for yourself, even small ways of being kind to yourself..hope some of this helps! **hugs**
1 month ago
behindamask​(dom male) - Sure know the feeling.
1 month ago

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