changeling​{taken}

sub female

35

Single

I'm a polytheist and single mother from Southern California. I presently find myself unemployed in an attempt to recover from "corporate burnout" after 4 years in an "upper-middle" management position in the aviation industry. I enjoy tabletop games, syfy and fantasy movies, 80s and 90s action flicks and just about anything related to stationary (notebooks, pens, planners, stickers). I love Stitch (from Lilo & Stitch) and foxes - so cute and awkward. I have a little bit of a lisp and I can come across a little sassy/bratty/sarcastic when I'm out with friends. I like to stir the pot just for fun sometimes but most of the time people seem to find me reserved or "serious". I find that I naturally take on a Submissive role around people whose Dominance speaks to me.

I had once hoped to eventually find myself in a consistent, long term, IRL dynamic with a D-Type that has caregiver/disciplinarian tendencies. I need to know that I'll be held accountable, rewarded, and punished appropriately. I'm slow to trust others but once I do, I value and honor that trust deeply. I would work hard to be a cherished servant for the right D. Unfortunately, the more time that passes, the more I realize I am unlikely to find a satisfying scenario on this regard.

I'm curious about rope play and other types of bondage, but I haven't tried much out just yet.

Some of my kinks are:
primal play (prey)/chase & capture, service submission, speech restriction, light impact play, sensory play/deprivation, bunny/fox, princess, nipple clamping (beginner), orgasm control, overstimulation, anal training (beginner)

No children, no animals, no knives or cutting, no scat, no race play, no fire, no needles, no face spitting or face slapping, no mutilation or permanent damage, no heavy degradation, no interference with family or work (I can make time in my life for the right Dom, but I'm still a person with responsibilities).

I'm not interested in topping or taking on a switch role.

No using titles, pet names, or honorifics without the correlating trust/relationship.

5'4", 187 lbs, 40D (since I've been asked a few times based on information and photos here)

I've been in a monogamous, heterosexual presenting, vanilla relationship for almost a year and a half. I can't help but acknowledge that it is flawed in that I have not discussed my Submissive tendencies/needs with him. However, I'm content in in my relationship as it stands.

I find myself returning to this website and browsing blogs in an attempt to grasp at a connection I am not otherwise willing to seek out and to "feed" my Submissive nature in some small way.

I have seen several messages come through, but I am unwilling to engage with the majority of them for a variety of reasons, but primarily out of respect for my partner.

Messages seeking out genuinely platonic conversation are still welcome.

Mar 22, 2024

May 11, 2020