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Rose's Thorns.

A general pondering.
3 weeks ago. Jul 13, 2020, 8:00 PM

Its amazing how people twist things around. No concept of boundaries or behaviour and push it onto the other person. 

So after a neighbor who asked to see my lady parts as normal behaviour i asked if this was something he often did with female friends and now im being told ive provoked him and he doesn't want any contact with me after giving into being human. 

..... seriously and yes this idiot goes to bdsm munches. 

Each time trying to see my boobs or my vagina trying to seehow far he could get. Saying im harsh and lost a friend for giving into being human.

A friend would never have put me in that position. Watching porn and then coming over telling me how he keeps getting hard and finding it difficult. Thats not my problem. 

 

Now ive provoked him been judgemental and harsh. Really? 

Like really! 

Oddly asking why i didn't tell him i was uncomfortable at the time after he asked me if i would sleep with him.

This response is exactly why i didn't i say anything at the time.

 

Self control is important. Calling me judgemental and then saying you apologied when you didn't by saying all these things isn't an apology. 

 

God its hard being a woman sometimes. Even the nice ones can be arseholes. 

 

This wouldn't happen in a bdsm club. Not at least without someone going okay thanks bye. I wouldn't have to say no and use contraceptive as an excuse. I wouldn't be asked these questions and if i didn't want to play it would just be okay i don't have to think of reasons and one no is enough for the other person to respect that decision. Not this. I would feel safe. Xxxx 

Mr E​(dom male) - Well that sounds a bit odd really. "You have lady parts and I'd like access so you know, make that happen asap."
3 weeks ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - The weird bit was calling it a normal
3 weeks ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - Then saying im provoking him when i asked if he does that to other female friends. If it was normal that wouldn't be the response
3 weeks ago
FeistyMinx​(sub female){Protected/} - You mentioned that he goes to munches. I'm just suggesting this, skip the next munch. If he asks why you didn't go. You may want to get some pepper spray or something. I don't care what someone's sexual preference is.... This guy is not ok.
3 weeks ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - I don't go to them.
3 weeks ago
Daddy's Lil' Monster​(sub female){NotLooking} - O.o
That's one way of calling his behavior inappropriate.
3 weeks ago
Sasa - I understand that you are angry, but this is not Vanilla, this is the Horny-Ass-Country. Vanilla is not the bad opposite of BDSM and our lifes don't happen in club's. Hope you kicked him anyway.
3 weeks ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - I know not everyone in vanilla is like this. As i said this individual attends munches and thinks bdsm porn is accurate and admitedly attends munches to get laid. My point is from my experience this often happens in vanilla spaces. We talk a lot about consent and respect in bdsm and i don't think its something thats often discussed in vanilla land or could be discussed more. Horney ass country seems to have more acceptability in vanilla land in bdsm world i wouldn't have to come up with reasons for saying no. Again thats my experience.
3 weeks ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - Self control is just absent
3 weeks ago
FeistyMinx​(sub female){Protected/} - My husband and friends outside of here are vanilla and they would never do something like that.
3 weeks ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - Can you introduce me? Would be nice to know someone nice x
3 weeks ago
behindamask​(dom male) - What on earth is up with that.
3 weeks ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - Well.... lol
3 weeks ago
FeistyMinx​(sub female){Protected/} - I think you have a stalker
3 weeks ago
FeistyMinx​(sub female){Protected/} - I'm not trying to scare you but I am serious
3 weeks ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - Thanks, but its all good im a big girl ;)
3 weeks ago
RedKat​(sub female){MidlifeMan} - I agree, it’s damn hard being a woman! I am going to be a bitch but I ‘m going to say it anyway, it would be so much easier to be a selfish asshole man! Lol, yes I did!
3 weeks ago
Daddy's Lil' Monster​(sub female){NotLooking} - How dumb do these guys think we are?

Here I go quoting Samuel Jackson again..

My ass may be dumb, but I ain't no dumbass.
3 weeks ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - Love it
3 weeks ago
Sensual City Girl{ForeverHIS} - Seriously??!! I need my virtual slap button.
3 weeks ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - Yeah the calling it normal was weird
3 weeks ago
Sunshinegirl​(sub female) - Um.....sounds like a restraining order waiting to happen
3 weeks ago
behindamask​(dom male) - That is a form of sexual harassment, and illegal, or at least in my book it is.
3 weeks ago
Sunshinegirl​(sub female) - Exactly ^^^^^ I just realized you aren’t in the USA so I don’t know what the laws and rules are in England as far as sexual harassment, but please don’t let it continue. This is not ok!!!!!!!!😡🤬
3 weeks ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - I was hoping it might have just been a misunderstanding.
3 weeks ago
FeistyMinx​(sub female){Protected/} - I would just avoid him. Maybe go to different munches.
3 weeks ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - I don't bother round here because there is always people who can't control themselves
3 weeks ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - Thanks, its not just me thinking its weird
3 weeks ago

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