Rose's Thorns.

A general pondering.

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3 years ago. January 5, 2021 at 11:53 PM

Remember the dates were you would just talk? Get to know the person? Consider yourself lucky if you got a kiss at the end.

The look that would happen when you connected with the person the feeling that would follow.

No counting down the dates until number 3 with the aim to be getting into bed but to know the person.

The kiss that would set fire to the pit of your stomach, that you could let go and just enjoy because the kiss was that good. Again with no other aim but to feel a connection through kissing rather than it a stepping stone to the next point.

Or checking you got home safe after dinner. When was the last time you had dinner and just talked with someone.

Now a text does the job. Or if your lucky one five minute date over coffee. Is it any wonder every time i try to get back out into the dating world i find that dating somehow doesn't include dates. When did that happen? You hit date 3 and they just assume your up for it, what if instead you wanted to invest time ? The one commodity that no one seems to have anymore, time.

K y i v - Rose.. you hit 30 ;) Those were the good OLD days!

3 years ago

rosethorn(sub female) - Yup i hit 30 in November, im guessing its showing... damn it lol.
Im all up for fun but that was in clubs, drinking or actually being friends with fun... or blind drunk.
But im not sure when dates actually disappeared or became code for something else. God im old.

3 years ago

Sir Don(dom male){N/A} - Now everything has a expiration date...
It has become a me first society. Instant gratification. Great retrospect

3 years ago

rosethorn(sub female) - 'Everything has an expiration date' sad but true. Its me first while trying to hide it as much as possible.

3 years ago

Bunnie - There are still plenty of Gentlemen out there :) you’ll find one.

3 years ago

rosethorn(sub female) - It just takes me by surprise sometimes

3 years ago

WhatamIfightingfor(dom male) - i still remember a news piece titled, "is an online affair, and affair" that was about 10 years ago, and a symptom that relationships as we had known had come to end, for we lost sight of what relationships take, and were about.

3 years ago

OraclePollon(sub female){NotYours} - okay... you forced it out of me... I need to squee!! for a moment. Talking to my Sir before bed last night and just having a regular old conversation, the kind where you can just be in the same room as someone (we aren't in the same room, mind you) and be so comfortable, and I remember thinking "I love this man" Now, we are relatively new, but have said I love you and decided we both meant it (yes... that is a thing we do) but it is not something we say often, like a good night sign off or anything (also, not something we do) but I was just so at peace and content with a full heart, and I said good night. About 3 minutes later, I get the "I love you" from him. and my heart just exploded! Because you know he was thinking the exact same thoughts and was in the exact same place to the extent that he had to say it, because it was just so real.

We talk often about missing just holding hands and walking down the city streets, getting coffee and chatting. Anyways! They do exist, and they are amazing. Also... I am 34!! so there is still time for you! lol! The gentleman Sir does still exist, haha.

3 years ago

rosethorn(sub female) - Im glad you have that connection x

3 years ago

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Rose's Thorns.

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