Why is it everytime i tell a man im into bdsm and submissive two things always happen
Instantly thinks im up for anything (yes anything) just automatically assumes this after a quick conversation. It's an odd look of amazement, unbridled excitement and panic. It's an odd combination as you can see the list of things he thinks might happen from porn induced fancies. As a consequence most respect goes.
Secondly the combination of lust of the porn fantasies combined with pleading and begging. I don't know what what happens but the guy's always seem taken over by something akin to lust that makes them beg like anything. Or they straight up get offended when you say no because they have their own fantasy and actually prefer the fantasy to the real life. Basically think your a maid with sex benefits.
Thing is i just told you im submissive.... do either of those responses seem in anyway Dominant to you? As in what a sub is attracted to? Because i don't. The irony amuses me.