Ya know what?
If you are short? I'm totally ok with that!
If you are chubby,
Balding,
Over 50,
Working a low-wage job,
You know what? I don't mind at all!
That doesn't make you any less of a Dom.
Any less worthy of being considered, valued, cherished, seen.
Being older doesn't make you a creeper. We all get older.
Not looking like some romance novel character doesn't make you less sexy. Sexy takes many shapes. I can be genuinely attracted to a wide range of body types, and so can many others, if they will be honest with themselves.
Being any of the above doesn't mean someone is going to "have to settle" for you.
A specific aesthetic is not what makes a great Dom.
A specific income bracket is not what makes a great Dom.
A specific age group is not what makes a great Dom.
Yeah, people have preferences, sure. But maybe we should all give different people a try, because long term attraction and love depend so much more on compatibility of the mind and soul.
I see you, doms who feel invisible.
Love,
-an invisible sub