Is this normal?

11 months ago. May 16, 2023 at 1:47 PM

Hello everyone, I know here I can be myself sooo…

I was watching this porn video (I must admit I have a passion for edging. Gay(watch this alot), lesbian, etero. I just love it) of this mistress edging his sub for his release and I understood that he was “free-orgasm” for so much long. I was fascinating…BUT the question is…I was fascinated by the control or just the act? I mean I’m surely not a mistress even if I love it but I need a strong man (maybe a switch? I don’t know!) And I love when In those videos of edging the one in charge praise the other one while doing “mean” things…I am strange? It is a contradiction, isn’t it?

like always sorry for my English and wish a good day to everyone!

Jack in the box -
Well, if you were to ask me (ehm hmm)
It seems to me you have an interest in the submission and dominance at the same time.
To answer your question, no - you are not strange. I would suggest, yes, a switch.
Just my 2 cents 😘

11 months ago

Six Foot Four - Beatrice, normal is overrated. Some people would consider everyone here a little strange, so if you are, you're in good company. ;) I have always appreciated dichotomies, like gentle kissing while violently striking my partner's bottom.

Orgasm denial can be lots of fun. Try this: picture yourself as one and then the other, and see which or if both appeal. Do you want the control? Do you want the control taken from you? Or are you merely fascinated by the exchange of control? For me, I find the surrender of oneself to another terribly romantic.

Lots of people have a praise kink. Being told 'Good Girl,' while "mean" things are being done is fairly common. Some people also enjoy a scolding while being petted; some people might see that as a contradiction. Some people revel in the dichotomy; it's all about what works for you and your eventual-future partner.

11 months ago

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