"Listen carefully I shall say this only once"
you get bonus points if you tell me the series that quote is from (Hint: its a comedy)
So in the past couple of weeks there have been an increase in messages from "subs" sending me a message offering me phone numbers and telling me things like they want training from me.
Now most of these are either likely to be fake accounts or incredibly inexperienced people who think this is the best way to get someones attention.
So ignoring the first group, because if you have a fake account who cares, the second group should be very wary.
I see myself as being somewhat old fashioned, I will have a conversation and get to know you and who you are outside of the whole BDSM scene before I decide if I wish to pursue a dynamic/relationship with you. Which usually means when such people message me they're put off pretty quickly because a "real Dom" wouldn't be so polite.
Well yes I really fucking would be wouldn't I!!!!
But I have a concern that what will happen is these new inexperienced people may dive straight into having a dynamic with what I term as a "paper Dom" someone who isn't aware of the responsibility that comes with being the Dominant in a relationship, who just wants a quick way to get their rocks off.
Please new subs, take time to learn what it is that YOU want, and remember being submissive is not the same as being disrespected.
AND STOP SPAMMING MY INBOX lol
