Don't make a fool of yourself by sending volumes of sometimes contradictory and *always* unsolicited rants lecturing us on how we are not being sensitive to YOUR chosen subculture with OUR word choice or what we're looking for in OUR subculture. It's blatantly hypocritical.
We are a D/s couple living a BDSM contract lifestyle looking at *possibly* adding a third if we find someone eager to be a part of our lifestyle. We know that many other subcultures have their own rules and verbiage, and we respect that, asking only that you do the same. If our post doesn't appeal to you, there is a good reason: We aren't looking for the same things.
You can: 1) Comment positively 2) Express interest; or 3) Respectfully disagree (in a line or two, not a book about how we need to change, complete with links to still more pages of opinion pieces that assume more about us than is possible to deduce from the posts and support a niche lifestyle that you have chosen for yourself)
We know we live a niche lifestyle. We are in a 24/7 D/s closed relationship. This allows me to go out and work in a stressful, professional job and come home to the very traditional BDSM dynamic that honors what works for us in private 😈. We know we have "couples privilege" and we honor that by being upfront, honest, and willing to discuss any and all things openly.
💕Hekate
