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Thoughts From A New Me

I Am A Unicorn
I Am Uni
I Am Me

I Am But A Caterpillar
Born
And
Set Free

Thinking Myself
Dead
Untill I Am Born Again

I Am A Butterfly
I Have Wings
I Fly

I Am FlitterFly
I Am Flitter
I Am Me

As I Fly
I See
A Wicked World

I Slowly Die
And
Find Again
Me... :)

Reborn Again
Out Of The Ashes
I Rise

High High High
Into The Sky
And I See

I Am A Phenix
I Rise
I Live
I Am Set Free

I Am Me.. :)
I Am Me.. :)

 

Spoons ? 

I've been wanting to write a piece about this and have decided that now is a good time for this topic. 

 

It took me going to the Munch in Tn for months, before I finally asked.

What the heck everyone was talking about, as they were always talking about Spoons?? 

 

So apparently, when someone is talking about having no spoons.? 

This is referring to there mental and or physical level. 

 

So when I say my spoons? are compleatly depleted. 

I have no spoons? left to move. 

I have only enough spoons? to get out of bed today and just keep on keeping on. 

This means that I have no energy to deal. 

Or 

I could say 

My spoons? are on overload. 

I have so many spoons today I was made to take a time out. 

Means that I am full of life and mentally able to get up and function. 

 

Also we sometimes manage to barely have enough spoons?to get up, and then we have to make our own spoons?in order to countinue to function in the world and life as we live in it. 

 

My spoons?have been pretty much non-existent for a few days now. 

Everything I can do to breath, to earn enough spoons to keep on keeping on. 

 

Struggling to even get up and make things happen.

Finding myself having to go back to a place that I fought so hard, and long to leave, when I first found thecage to begin with. 

 

Here's to finding, making, and building your spoons?. 

 

Thank You 

FF

?'s  ? 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Kinky Poet​(other male) - OMG I now realise I know nothing about Spoons, I thought until now spoons was when you.snuggle or are being snuggled from behind by a partner
Well I guess I'm not the worldly poet I was hoping to be....just old lol ? ?
Thanks young lady. I hope soon all your spoon are in a row and your cutlery has runneth over
Love and light T.K.P xx
1 year ago
SirsBabyDoll​(sub female)​{Pizza+☕}Verified Account - You aren't the only one. That's how I understand spoons/spooning.

Maybe it's a Tennessee thing because we dont refer to "spooning" any other way except cuddling.
1 year ago
flitter'fly​(sub female) - They use to talk about Spoons on there discord and at the munches
I even have a meme I can't post right now that speaks volumes.
But you may be right about it being a Tn thing hehe
I just thought I'd share.
Thanks SBD
1 year ago
flitter'fly​(sub female) - I typed in
definition of the mental status on spoons.
It gave me this definition.

Spoons are used as a metaphor and visual representation for energy rationing. The metaphor has since been used to describe a wide range of disabilities, mental health issues, forms of marginalization, and other factors that might place an extra and often unseen burden on people living with them.
1 year ago
flitter'fly​(sub female) - We all struggle from time to time.
And if one is only able to wake up and live that day.
Then I am happy that at least there spoon was full enough to live.
Thank You
1 year ago
The Kinky Poet​(other male) - Thank you for the explanation
Love and light T.K.P xx
1 year ago
Sweet Ginger​(sub female)​{⚓ Taken} - I only know spoons as cuddling too...butttt it doesn't matter what does matter is you sound sad.. sending positive thoughts ✨️ your way.. ?
1 year ago
HeyLittleOne - May I offer you some of mine? ?
??
Sending lots of warm wishes your way - hope you feel better soon ♡
1 year ago
flitter'fly​(sub female) - :)
1 year ago
Voldemort​(dom male)Verified Account - You know i haven't had any spoons for a while FF.
So I understand.
1 year ago

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