flitter'fly(sub female)

Thoughts From A New Me

I Am A Unicorn
I Am Uni
I Am Me

I Am But A Caterpillar
Born
And
Set Free

Thinking Myself
Dead
Untill I Am Born Again

I Am A Butterfly
I Have Wings
I Fly

I Am FlitterFly
I Am Flitter
I Am Me

As I Fly
I See
A Wicked World

I Slowly Die
And
Find Again
Me... :)

Reborn Again
Out Of The Ashes
I Rise

High High High
Into The Sky
And I See

I Am A Phenix
I Rise
I Live
I Am Set Free

I Am Me.. :)
I Am Me.. :)

Taboo-"DDlg, Age-Play & Dark Age-Play"-Or Not

6 months ago. May 16, 2024 at 7:53 PM

Taboo-"DDlg, Age-Play & Dark Age-Play"-Or Not

Be Respectful!!!

And Remember:

My Kink May Not Be Your Kink

Your Kink May Not Be Mine

And That Is OKAY!!!

You may not understand it, but like anything, Y/you should put in the time to learn about it. Before Y/you make judgments and calls, that Y/you know nothing about.

Thank You

Here i am bloging because my little is out to play.

she is relentless at this point, being made to feel wrong or bad, for being who she is, for being who we are.

So by bloging, i have been getting allot of feedback.

Others in the community.

Dominants and subs alike.

Wanting to learn.

Either not knowing how to allow a little out.

Feeling ashamed of our littles.

Embracing our littles.

Needing something, and not knowing how to find it.

Needing others to Embrace us and our littles. So that we may feel more comfortable being us, and being us in this community.

The community where we as littles and with our own kinks, fettishes, should be excepted, embraced, and made to feel safe.

Yet because of the mixed feelings of DDlg in general, and sex with DDlg. We are being looked down on and discriminated against.

Even here on the cage.

Where our kink is just as real and safe as Y/yours.

WE ARE NOT INTO PEDOPHILIA !!!

We Are Adult's Of Age And Consenting.

We are still us, even while being little.

No matter with age regression.

and how young we go.

We are littles and some who like sex.

Don't Get It Wrong .

That is a closed minded way to see things.

And of no use in our world.

Also, Doms who want to know more.

Willing to learn, and being taught.

Even by a sub/little. 🤔 😲

Shocker i know.😏🫠

And yes there are therapist who are qualified and say that DDlg and Shock DDlg and sex are safe, normal, and a way to heal, cope, and play.

Some Material:

Littles:

Affects And Aesthetics In Sexual Age-Play.

https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12119-018-09580-5

Dark Age-Play.

Age-Play:

Daddys, Mommy's, Caregivers, and littles.

How To Get Into little Space

Without A Caregiver.

https://ddlgplayground.com/blogs/the-playground/how-to-get-into-little-space-without-a-caregiver

Ddlg

If Only:

Alphabet Boy:

Monster High-Fright Song:

Amigas Cheetahs:

Rainbow 🌈 Rainbow 🌈

All the colors of me.

For i am a Rainbow 🌈

Made up of all the different possibilities of who I am, and what I want to be.

Love me, for being me.

In all, that I as a Rainbow, intel and represent.

Love all the colors of me.

Thank You

flitterfly... :):):)

DawnRobin 🥰

The Kinky Poet(other male) - It takes many facets to make a beautiful Diamond. Shine on
BE STRONG BE BEAUTIFUL AND BE YOU
Love and light T.K.P xx

6 months ago

flitter'fly(sub female) - Always Mr. Ron
Thank You

6 months ago

Voldemort(dom male) - What happened Flitter?
Personally I like how littles are so fiercely loyal. They would do anything for their Daddy.

6 months ago

flitter'fly(sub female) - Yes but a sexual little and age regression is a big big thing. And most do not know how to handle that. In turn, makeing a little hide, seek shelter, close off, be locked away, makes one feel guilty for something that for us is normal and good. Like going into subspace. It's that comfortable and even more so in many cases blissful. I guess.
Read the first artical.
And even when one is kind, but still does not understand and ends things because of that. It is very very critical for a little. Can infact be harmful if it was because of she and sex.
Allot of littles go through this. Like i said, having allot of feedback and a want and need to come out and be open within our community without judgment and shame.
Just like everyone else.
Thank you, my friend.

6 months ago

Sweet Ginger(sub female){⚓ } - I'm glad you are speaking out and sharing your voice.. I'm not into age play buttttt resonate with being a little...in fact, I've blogged about it a few times...I'm sharing because there are many dimensions of littles and much misunderstoodings, as you know but some may not..as you stated, no one size fits all and we should all embrace who we are, to better understand ourselves and each other.

🧸 ❤️

6 months ago

flitter'fly(sub female) - Thank You
I agree completely 🥰🤗💛❤️🖤

6 months ago

Satindragon{Not Lookin} - Some of us only have little tendencies or slave tendencies. We are all unique in our own way. That's why this lifestyle works for many. Every dynamic is as diverse as the stars in the sky. I hope you find someone who understands you.

6 months ago

flitter'fly(sub female) - Absolutely, we are all different.
That's what makes us unique.
We would be one boring bunch if we were all the same. Lol.
Thank You Miss Satindragon.

6 months ago

ControlYourHole(dom male) - Great post flitter! I've heard from several subs with little tendencies that they've been rejected and ridiculed by sooo many men for wanting to be in little space during sex🥲🙃even guys who seem Dominant in many ways...it's like many men and women both have been trained to see sexual pleasure as only something "naughty" or dirty and can't embrace the concept of a sub having both innocent & little-girly feelings AND sexual desires like the physical adult they are. Meanwhile I always wanted a girl exactly like that and was relieved to know they exist lol😂if a "Dom" doesn't feel comfortable with that so be it but don't hate on a sub for not being one-dimensional. Peace :-)

6 months ago

flitter'fly(sub female) - Absolutely 💯 %
And why this gave me enough nerve to post.
Everyone deserves to be them.
If being honest about myself and by putting myself in the firing range, helps others to come out and / or learn from this, it's a win-win.
We need more people who are knowledgeable about this to speak up.
Time and again I've sat and listened to the banter through these last few years, when this topic comes up.
And everytime it's always a belief and voiced loudly that who we are as sexual littles is wrong, discussting and frowned upon.
No wonder new Doms who want to learn, get turned away at the drop of a hat, when anything of this nature is brought up.
Also, sexual littles lock themselves away, scared and confused, unable to fully heal because they are thought to be less than.
Everyone wants transparency but when given transparency we are shamed, shuned, and dismissed as being less.
I AM ENOUGH
And I refuse to be shamed, shuned, dismissed or treated as less than.
i am a damn good woman, and one worth having.
If another can't see that.
Then it's there problem and something they need to work on within themselves.
Growth comes with knowledge.
Countinue Your growth always.
Thank You 🤗🥰

6 months ago

ControlYourHole(dom male) - I thank you for speaking up and I'm sure many littles who are into more than coloring books and pink pajamas do too😎not that I dislike any of that of course, id love a sub with more "traditional" little tendencies outside the bedroom, but there is DEFINITELY a place and even a need for "dark" ageplay and/or softer but sexual "Daddy's curious little girl" roles in DD/lg for many. I want to post some blogs about that here, hopefully if I put enough disclaimers it won't get deleted like I've seen other Daddy Dom's blogs get treated😐shoot, maybe me and my wifey will eventually met the right type of horny little that way eventually😜

6 months ago

flitter'fly(sub female) - I too am little out of the bedroom. Lol
Not nearly enough though.
And I absolutely look forward in reading Your blogs.
Thank You

6 months ago

trappedperhaps(sub female) - I’m with you, I get it. I had it on my profile for awhile the taboo of it does turn people away. I’ve narrowed it down to wanting a DD. Hope with the right person it’ll be self explanatory. There’s a lot I love about it. I haven’t really talked to many other people that are into. Thanks for putting it out there. It’s nice to have someone to talk to about it

6 months ago

flitter'fly(sub female) - Absolutely 😊
Thank You

6 months ago

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Thoughts From A New Me

Taboo-"DDlg, Age-Play & Dark Age-Play"-Or Not

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