Freedom within slavery... The journey to me.

The beautiful bond of service. "Siblings" a love that binds for a lifetime

                kajira oath

He is Owner, and girl is owned

He commands, and girl obeys

He is Master, girl is slave

He is to be pleased, and girl is to please

Why is this ?

Because He is Master and girl is slave

              ~~kajira prayer ~~

Allow this humble girl the strength to answer questions she cannot fathom.

Allow this girl the spirit to know His needs.

Allow this girl the serenity to serve him in peace.

Allow this girl the love to show Him herself.

Allow this girl the tenderness to comfort Him.

Allow this girl the light to show us the way.

Allow this girl the wisdom to be an asset to Him.

Let this girl be able to show Him each day her love of her serve to Him.

Let this girl open herself up to completely belong to Him.

Let this girl accept her punishment with grace of a women.

Let this girl learn to please Him, beyond herself.

Grant this girl the power to give herself to Him completely.

Give this girl the strength to please us both.

Permit this girl to love herself in loving Him.

For it is this girls greatest wish, this ones highest power to make His life complete.

I today so proud of our lifestyle. I have seen so many selfless acts of kindness this week. 

However today I was involved. 

A friend of mine that is a Dominant, got a plea from a PURELY PLATONIC slave friend (me) 

Requesting.. will you please go to the store and get me tampons, I am hurting so bad that I can barely move. I then told him the brand and size.

He calls me while at the store, poor guy had to ask where they were. He did with no embarasent. I told him the brand size again. He said anything else, ? Yes there is personal spray (I call it TOOTIE or Nay Nay spray) again brand and scent.. done. Anything else? Yes I want to highlight my hair.. off he goes reading each box until the right one is found. Anything else? No I think I am good. He goes to register and pays. No embarasent, nothing. And he offered to help with my hair. 

I said all of that to say this.

How selfless of an act. We ARE NOT VETTING OR IN ANY TYPE OF DYNAMIC.

Just friends, nothing sexual, just great friends. 

This s/types, it the quality of Dominant you want in your life. If he does this for someone NOT in service to Him or on His care, oh my goodness how is  a submissive in His care would be treated. DANG. 

And no we will never be more than friends.

But this girl is so very proud to have a friend like that. 

S/types, if you're interested hit my inbox. I won't publicly give His name. 

Anyway just proud to have met and seen true compassion lately 

Off to find chocolate

slave Draconica

Don't be afraid.

I used to be afraid to walk through an open Door. 

A former Master would say, lil one it's okay, walk through the door. I'm waiting on the other side.

Today, the door may crack, I will forever be guardly optimistic.

I am so very ready for the day the doors open and the Dominance on the other side will be so bright I will be drawn like a moth to a flame. 

I will be STRONG ENOUGH, in that moment to drop to my knees. To serve. Forever more. 

If it opens, it's your door, don't just peak in. Take a deep breath, and walk through. It could be so beautiful it could bring it to your knees.

Keep love and respect in the lifestyle.

slave Draconica

Hello everyone.

I must apologize for my last post. I did not mean to depress anyone.

I want everyone to know I am absolutely good. No I am NOT in-service. I am growing within myself.

I enjoy helping others and meeting people of the same mindset. 

I have had the honor of serving Dominant's and Master's & my Ma'am. 

Today I have nothing but respect for all of them and thankful for the seasons we shared. I made HORRIBLE choices within one of them. And there was alot of pain. However today, this girl's heart smiles as they have grown and found theirs. And I am so very happy. However shine down and strong enough will forever in my mind take me back to his feet. Sitting in Atlanta, him brushing my hair after my shower. Forever the Dragon that showed me a side of my masochism I didn't know exist. Forever greatful.

My Ma'am, she showed me the beautiful way of the female Dominance. Forever she will be the ma'am of my heart.

I'm greatful to those I have been in conversations with. Allowing me to even just a moment see the beauty of your life.

I'm blessed way more than I deserve. And very humbled at where my journey is taking me.

So my posts will definitely be more up beat. Per the request of a special FRIEND. (This is for you Sir) 

And to everyone else.. get ready as slave Draconica is back, in a better space.. Let the shenanigans begin..

As this slave is a free range slave these days. So s/types, I am looking for new friends.. reach out let's talk.

Humbly,

slave Draconica

Aka

Mariposa

Aka

Emma Marie

But most of all

Aka

ME, this girl, this slave

If just for Today

11 THINGS THAT REALLY HAPPEN IN D/s relationships

Takeaway: D/s relationships are best known for the power dynamic and kink, but the relationship is really nothing more than people going through the same daily struggles as everyone else.

When you picture Dominance and submission, what do you imagine? Collars and naked submissives crawling and kneeling? Probably lots of kinky stuff like floggers and bondage. A bit of rough sex? Let me put another picture in your mind. This is one of laughter and tears, arguments, misunderstandings and lots of coffee. You know, real people in real relationships. While D/s relationships are best known for power dynamics and kink, they're area also really, well, normal. Here are 11 things that happen all the time.

Someone Farts
I hate to break it to you, but everyone farts. Even the submissive or Dominant of your kinkiest fantasies. Once you’re together in a long-term relationship, one of you is going let one loose when you least expect it. In my relationship, we might joke about it, raise an eyebrow in silent judgement, or say something like, “Whoa...that one sounded painful.” At some point in your D/s relationship, you'll also poop, vomit, clean your ears, clip your toenails and scratch your butt. Yep, just like in every other relationship you’ve ever had.

You Get the Flu
Maybe it’s not the flu. Around here, we come down with sinus infections, strep throat and bronchitis - not to mention mental health issues and back problems. Whatever it is, the kink goes on the back burner until you recover. In some cases, it’s a long-term chronic illness and your life adjusts to fit your new reality. As a submissive, it’s OK to let your Dominant take care of you when you’re ill. It's also important that Dominants respect the fact that while their submissives want to take care of them, they will have other things to manage as well.

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You Don’t Like Their Family
Your kinky partner may be a dream, but their family is a nightmare. This is no different than any other vanilla interaction. Try not to let it become a wedge between you. Remember, it’s hard for your partner to feel pulled between family and you. Assuming it’s just a personality conflict and not something dangerous or abusive, find a way to handle it in your relationship. We use a lot of sarcastic humor before they arrive, and then blow off steam with rough sex when they go home.

The Kids Catch You
I was bent over the bed, ass out, on the receiving end of a few well-placed, delicious smacks. After a hard day, I needed it. We’d also just moved into a new home. Neither of us understood how thin the walls were until we heard, “What’s that sound?” coming from the kids’ room. Yes, they’ll catch you. You can freak out or you can breathe (I vote for breathing). Normally we talk to our kids about sex in age-appropriate terms. That day, we lied through our teeth. “We’re just clapping!”

The Kids Ask Awkward Questions
“Why do you call him ‘Sir’?” or “How come you wear that weird necklace all the time?” Some kids won’t notice, while others notice everything. Answer your kids with age-appropriate responses or lie through your teeth - depending on their age and the question. Most kids will accept whatever answer you give. Just remember that if you treat it like a big deal or something to worry about, they will, too.

You Disagree About Money
My partner and I don’t disagree about much. We’re sickeningly cute like that. Our one chronic annoyance with each other is money, which makes sense: it's the No.1 point of contention in most relationships. He worries we won’t have enough. I worry he’ll be too cheap to buy the things we actually need. Sounds like a “normal” or “vanilla” issue doesn’t it? That’s because, regardless of your kinks, at the end of the day, you’re still people navigating a relationship together. Oh, and no he doesn’t always “win” the argument by saying, “I’m the Dominant!” We make ourselves work through it and find a solution we can both accept.

You Come Up with Silly Jokes That Don’t Make Sense to Anyone but You
One time, while packing for a trip, I ran out of quart size bags and had to use sandwich bags. When I tried to explain what I did, it came out, “I’ve packed my sandwiches” instead of “my toiletries in sandwich bags.” In my defense, I was tired. From that day forward, we always ask if the other one has their sandwiches ready when we pack. It’s silly and stupid, but it’s personal and a reminder of a shared silly moment. The longer you’re together, the more of those moments you’ll collect.

You Find Ways to Express Your Kink in Public
When we go out for breakfast, I take care of my partner’s cup of coffee. The server pours, and I add cream and sugar. That’s my job as his submissive. Whether the server or other patrons think I’m really nice or really weird doesn’t matter. In that moment, our D/s dynamic is on full display and no one has a clue except us. These small moments get us through when life intervenes in our bigger moments of kink.

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You Grieve Together
In 2015, my partner’s younger sister died. In 2017, a woman who was both my best friend and second mom unexpectedly died. Death happens, and it can’t be ignored. In those moments of grief, sometimes our D/s was put to the side - and sometimes it's what got us through. Each time we were there for each other and a support for the other to lean on. Much of what you can offer your partner in a relationship has little to do with kink - this is one of those times.

You Hate Some Weird Quirk
It doesn’t matter how much you adore your partner, we all have little quirks and traits that get on our partner’s nerves. He hates the way I say, “You do this differently than I do” which is code for, “You’re not doing it the way I do it.” I work at our kitchen table. If he sits down while I’m working to eat, the sound of his chewing makes me crazy. I’m not a bad submissive, and he’s still just as Dominant regardless of how these little quirks make us feel. Acknowledge those moments as normal. Being annoyed doesn’t make you any less Dominant or submissive, and your relationship isn’t doomed, either.

Vanilla Sex is (Sometimes) Fun
Your results may vary on this, but sometimes (for some people, in some situations), vanilla sex will feel pretty good. There’s this false truth that once you’re kinky all you ever want is rough or kinky sex. That may be true for some people, but not for everyone. Your D/s dynamic is still valid when you choose vanilla as a flavor from time to time.

The fantasy of D/s relationships is sexy and exciting. Most of the time we can make our fantasies come true, at least a little. At our core, we’re all people like anyone else. D/s doesn’t shield you from the rest of your life, but it can help you navigate it in new ways and with a better sense of who you are as a person and in your relationship.

Sometimes life can throw you a curve.

You gotta BEATHE.

Sometimes things don't work the way you think it will.

You gotta BREATHE

Sometimes you get defeated

You Gotta BREATHE

Sometimes you have to trust when you have no trust left to give.

You Gotta BREATHE

Sometimes you feel this walls going back up.

You gotta BREATHE

SOMETIMES LIFE HAPPENS..

IM GOING TO BREATHE

slave Draconica

I thought you would always be the one I could count on that would stand up for me when things got though.
I’d always believed you would fight for me because of how you felt about me.
Turns out, I was wrong.
While I know we’d had some rough times of late, our relationship had a lot of truly beautiful moments too..
Or had you forgotten those, too?
When I needed you most, when things were the hardest..you just turned your back on me.
I don’t think I’ve ever been so hurt in my life.
I just couldn’t believe the one person that I thought would always be there..wasn’t.
You just chose to walk away rather than fight for me, for us?
I ask myself a million questions trying to understand how you could do that..and honestly, I don’t know.
I may never know.
Maybe you didn’t feel as strongly about me as you claimed, maybe something changed..or maybe you just fed me some words to make me believe we were the real thing.
I don’t know. I’m just so hurt-I’m beyond pain, I’m numb.
I don’t know where to turn or what to think, I’m completely lost.
This wasn’t supposed to be how things were meant to turnout.
Part of me has always believed you were the one and that my search was over..
And now I’m just feeling dumb as you left me holding pieces of my broken heart..
But when everything came crashing down around me , you were nowhere to be found..
So, I did what I never thought I could do and stood up for myself..
I fought for me when I didn’t even think I had that strength in me.
Sometimes, your story doesn’t give you a choice and that’s exactly where you walked out on me..
So, I did whatever I had to do to survive.
It’s hard, I’m not going to lie -there’s so many days that I want to quit, but I’d rather be out here struggling by myself than depending on someone who walks out when things get hard.
I’m done with that.
I’m sure you have your reasons and what you told everyone else, but you never even bothered to explain it to me..
The one person you should have told first, you didn’t even think I was worth the effort.
I guess it’s better to find out now than many years down the road, but it still hurts all the same.
I know I’ll be fine eventually, because your cowardice reminded me of strength I didn’t know I had.
I’m strong enough, brave enough and courageous enough to pull through this with my head held high.
Maybe you walked out when the going got tough,
But the tough just made me get going.
I guess I should thank you for showing me the way back home to myself, but I don’t know that I’ll ever forgive you for what you did to me.
Doesn’t really matter, because I’m in a better place now.
Where you once left a girl to fend for herself without a thought to how she’d make it.
There now stands a strong woman..
With a heart of gold and a fiery spirit.
Some warriors are born..
This one was forged in the fire.
I was made for this..
Strong, beautiful and finally free.
The blood trail you left behind, gone.
The nightmares of you words.. gone..
The misery within your silence.. gone..
The fear of all we were, and what we were...

GONE

And the heart does not need loud posts with lofty words. Sometimes a soft whisper in your ear "My girl" is enough, sometimes a short and shrill growl "My!", And sometimes silence and silence for two; a look in which you drown without a trace; touch, from which you forget how to breathe or smell, dear and painfully familiar to your soul.

And the feeling of a drop of warmth means more and more expensive than bright exclamations, so that your heart is filled with red, hot avalanche blood, so that the layers of ice on it move and thaw in your soul.

And it doesn't matter what's outside the window. It is important what you live, what you breathe, or who and what your soul lives with. It is important what is alive in you...

SD