I wanted to touch on communication for a moment.
In this lifestyle it is the air in the lungs of every dynamic.
Now I have seen D types use the zero communication as punishment.
In fact I have had it imposed on me.
The feeling I got destroyed me. So with that said was it affective?
For me, no. It broke trust for me. The trust I had believed I could come to Him with anything and He would listen.
Even destroyed whatever "play" looked like.
As we were very primal, I lost trust in Him and in myself to be able to let go. To allow whatever He was facing to be taken out on my flesh.
With this being a LDR.. communication was truly all we had while apart.
I said all of this to ask this question,
What are your thoughts from both sides of the slash on communication, and lack of communication as a punishment?
Keep love and respect in the lifestyle
slave Draconica
