I am a very humble person. To a fault I've been told.
Any questions or conversations I have are to better understand anothers perspective.
But I'm also very intuitive. I sense when things arent right.
I've never "challanged" a dom I've been involved with. Only asked clarification when I feel things arent right.
I hold more things in than I say. All the time.
That being said.
I don't believe you must submit yourself to being humiliated in order to show humility.
Humiliation is not something the one dishing it can define. What humiliates me may not affect another.
I am a true submissive with the heart of a slave but degradation and humiliation are things I cannot do. I maintain my humility thru my service to my dom. It takes great strength and humility for a woman like me to submit.
I shouldn't have to be made to feel like I'm less. Especially after all the work Ive done these past years to become better physically and mentally. All that work was done alone. I dont need recognition but I also don't need dismissiveness by way of being made to be less than I am.