Life in poly as told by me

As i left off life in poly had some growing pains and some trials. I found out early my wife really loved a dom she had met. Wasn't 100 percent sure how id react but she was happy and i had met a women she was a dom women and i was 1000 percent clueless to what that even meant. Looking back at the time i truly had no grasp on what i was thinking. She lived in pho my wifes lived here not far from us. It was quiet the spot to be in. Was i able to just leave and go to pho? Would i want too she had all kinds of exciting ideas and i was stuck in park. My wifes new dom friend also had a wife and them three mixed well it appeared. What was i to do next? Of course being the forever hedonist i tried to add to my party if 2 was good four would be great right? Except the two new people in question was married and had normal lives it blew up in my face and i scared the pho girl away in anger she wanted to be my main and was not poly which struck me odd. Thought everyone in kink was poly? That thought quickly changed for sure. I soon realized boy i am way over my head. So did i go to munches? Or meet and greets? Nah we will stay home and just keep trying always works that way right? It for sure does not sadly. My wife had great success with her new friends though. She even asked me to help in a four way....i totally took one for the team. The dom she had fallen for his wife was not my type but who was i to stand in the way of a good time? It was a fun experiment being my Wifes wing man for sure. I still look at this fondly and wonder if it was the right way about it. Next we experience our first break up in poly....