Rolled for seduction, Now what?

I struggle with vulnerability. To the point it has slowed my dreams. But I'm working on it.  And I am constantly blown away with the amount of trust in BDSM. Now I know I'm preaching to the choir here.  But just reflecting on everything I'm just amazed. To be a good dom I need to be open and vulnerable with my sub and trust that they won't use that to hurt me. And a good sub is the definition of strong in their vulnerability. And my kitten exemplifies this in a lot of ways. You also though have to trust that sharing this "weird" thing your into won't be met with hostility or ridicule. (Though honestly what's normal for the spider is chaos to the fly, so what is weird really. ) but also that your sub is going to be honest with you about there needs and limits. It takes a lot to say, "hey, I want to be spanked/choked/tied/etc" and a lot to say you want to do those things. There's a special kind of vulnerability for a healthy dynamic. But also to participate in the community. People put themselves out there whether it be digital, at a munch or another event and trust that they'll be more or less accepted. And for the most part they are as long as it's safe , sane and consensual. Sure there's always going to be those assholes or folks who don't want to delve and explore what a dynamic really means but most folks are trying to learn and putting themselves out there.  Being vulnerable. And I think active practice of kink has leaked out into my daily life in more ways than I thought.  (Later I may post about the spanking story) but out side of dirty jokes and interest. I find it easier to be a little more vulnerable in my day to day life and let folks in.  It's just somthing I think is pretty neat. To bad it took me awhile to get a decent insight roll to figure out.