Rolled for seduction, Now what?

So we've been trying to plan some fun scenes and other ways to increase our kink in the day to day. Get things planned out, all the gear needed the space set up... and somthing goes wrong. An unexpected chore or errand, work schedules change so we don't have the next day to recoup from a particularly intense scene.  Or you know some one catches the plague and is quarentined on an air mattress in the office playing command and conquer and reading comics. You know normal stuff that messes up all the best plans. Sometimes it just seems like the great dm in the sky is throwing one encounter after another at you.  But now that I'm bounced back were going to give it another go and hopefully this time get some better rolls or you know if some one can toss some bardic inspiration our way it would be appreciated.