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My forums keep getting deleted I think, so I think I’ll stick with blogs for the time being. How is everyone doing? I’m a bit of a newbie to The Cage but I’m pretty sure the regulars here will see me posting every now and then. I hope to integrate myself into this community!
2 years ago. August 17, 2022 at 3:58 AM

Being trans is a weird difficulty, but it’s even harder in the dating and BDSM scene. Being a trans man is less so talked about within not only the trans community, but most communities such as LGBTQ+ groups. A lot of support goes toward trans women. 

I haven’t had much luck on this site, especially when I claimed to be a trans dude. I think this is because the trans life means something different to everyone. A trans guy can be a guy on testosterone with a beard and abs and a flat chest. But it could also mean someone pre hormone drugs, with a binder and more feminine features. 

Not really sure where I was going with this. Lmao. Have a good night

Master Rob - Hi, it just helps to talk this out, even if your not sure of what you want to say. Yes, it is very difficult to be a trans man, but that doesn’t make you any less of a human being and a person loved by family, friends, and colleagues. Stand tall and proud, even if you dont get the recognition of a trans woman. What matters is whats inside you anyway.
2 years ago
PrinceMatcha​(sub trans man) - Thanks master Rob, that means a lot <3
2 years ago
dollMaker​(dom male) - Cage isn’t a very LGBTQ+ place, so I am not surprised re you not having had much sucess among the cis het brigade, yours is not a unique experience.

I think though you are right regarding a wider issue of the focus being more on trans women than trans men, and I am not sure I know exactly why that is, maybe its about visibility and percieved threat coming out of the TERF ideology that is gaining traction among the conservative cis het people, which is focusing on women who are trans, rather than men who are trans. Being trans is very hard, and all trans people have equal worth and value, and I am sorry to hear you feel support, encouragement, visibility has been lacking for you, I hope you find what you need.
2 years ago
sexycurves​(sub female) - I know people who are trans, both men and women. I agree there seems to be more support for trans women than trans men. Like Dollmaker says, I don't really understand why that is. It shouldn't be the case. I think perhaps, socially, it's perceived that trans women maybe have a more difficult journey? I don't know. It's just wrong. All people need support at some point or points in their lives and where you are in your life journey shouldn't matter.

All I can say is that, you keep being who you are, and the people that matter will accept you.

Hang in there, and keep blogging if it helps. Live your life as you want to and keep smiling ☺.
2 years ago
SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+☕} - I'm sorry you are having trouble here. Kink communities should be inclusive.

I did notice that you have only been here since February and you only have like 4 or 5 blogs. It may be that people don't know you enough. I notice that quite a few people prefer to communicate with someone whom that have "seen around" and thus got an opportunity to observe in a more "public" way.

Just my 2 cents.

For me, I live with my coworker who is Trans male. His best friend is my other coworker and she is Trans female. Then there are their friends all of whom are trans one way or the other. My son is bi (so he says..he's 14) and the man he introduced me to is a bi cross dressing switch. We are hoping to be a rigger/model pair.

I hope you can find your people, your tribe. I know they have enriched my life.
2 years ago
JonCurt - Please explain the difference?
I love a woman's face and breasts/ body. With a man's Cox. Really turns me on just to look at her🔥. Please help me, curious enough to know what I want.
7 months ago
SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+☕} - This is my VERY basic, layman's explination. The nuances are much more complicated involving the term "gender".

Trans male= a person who was born with female genitals who identifies as male.
Trans female= a person who was born with male genitals who identifies as female.
7 months ago
JonCurt - You are awesome.. I'm being blocked by some people???
Probably not using the Right Terminology?Missed something on there profiles?
Again I think of you as a friend.
💯
7 months ago
SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+☕} - I was just answering a question as best as I knew. There are others who are FAR more knowledgeable than I on the subject.

As for the block, some people use the block as a self-cataloging system, "viewed profile...nah, I'll pass (block)". Don't think much on it.
7 months ago

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