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1 year ago. January 6, 2023 at 3:00β€―PM

Stockholm syndrome is a coping mechanism for a captive or abusive situation. People develop positive feelings toward their captors or abusers over time.

 


I think Stockholm syndrome is a very interesting phenomenon. Almost like the victim's gift to themselves to lessen the burden of emotional or physical pain. But it also could be a gift to the captor because now the victim has sympathized and wants to defend the captor as well as justifies their actions.

 


I think there might be interesting ways to incorporate Stockholm syndrome into a D/S relationship.

For instance, if a dom did not allow his sub outside into the world much, when he finally did allow her to experience the outside world, she would be grateful. A dominant could ultimately take all sorts of basic things away and then slowly give them back occasionally and the submissive would see it as generous kindness. 

As well as conditioning the slave or sub to be more dependent on the dom/Master, but it also could be used to strengthen the endurance or will of the sub. Forcing them to be more creative with things they are allowed to do.

 


I am absolutely intrigued by that kind of control. I'm sure it would not be an easy thing for a dom to give a sub or slave Stockholm syndrome, but that kind of mind control just seems so appealing to me. Does it appeal to anyone else?

HooiserDaddy​(switch male) - I absolutely enjoy that level of control!
1 year ago
txslavegirl - Yay!! So I'm not the only one <3
1 year ago
HooiserDaddy​(switch male) - Oh I’m sure we are not alone! πŸ˜…
1 year ago
erzascarlet​(sub female) - You are not alone at all that kind of control absolutely intrigues me.
1 year ago
Pandaish​(switch female){Medicinemn} - I am currently getting mentored as a Gorean Slave and this is definitely a thing. But to willingly accept this so curious. Like you are aware of this but it still happens.
1 year ago
Pandaish​(switch female){Medicinemn} - Especially because my mentor is long distance. He knows i love talking with himso he will not talk to me for a couple days. So when he does again its like im a puppy.
1 year ago
Max Heathen​(other male) - 😈 old blood indeed. Well written and I do find it intriguing now. Though at one point I use to find it deplorable when my monster would speak of old blood, which is very much the same as Stockholm's. However once he helped me see the twist that is added in their free choice of submitting to the situation, it became something far more beautiful. I've considered writing a blog about old blood a while back but ppl seem to get a lil touchy about a sadistic pov and his is rather graphic.πŸ˜‚πŸ˜ˆ
1 year ago
SlaveCass​(sub male) - I want to be controlled in this way, I have noticed that being able to do whatever I want leaves me not wanting to do anything, I don't appreciate what I have because it's so easy to get more, if someone held control over me like that I could learn to appreciate life and love them all the more for it.
1 year ago
txslavegirl - I sometimes feel that exact same way. And I already decided my next blog was going to be about the very thing you are speaking of. Here is a quote I found online about how sometimes having too many choices makes us unhappy. "Rather than increasing our sense of well-being,Schwartz says thatΒ too many choices in life can cause paralysis as well as increasing levels of anxiety, depression, and wasted time." I hope you find someone who takes control over you in all the ways you want to be controlled <3
1 year ago
SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+β˜•} - I'm really close with a woman who is actively engaging in developing Stockholm syndrome as part of the greater goal with her Dom. She is an extreme masochist. While I understand her thought process, I don't agree with it. I think it's bad, especially for someone who already has pre-existing conditions. That being said, I CAN tell you that the process takes detailed planning and in&depth understanding of the human psyche in order to be done effectively.

Personally, it's not something I'd recommend.
1 year ago
Bunnie - I kind of thought this was a natural fundamental part of the power exchange dynamic.
1 year ago
SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+β˜•} - Stockholm syndrome is like D/s on steroids with a negative mental health chaser. The mental health chaser is the issue, not the power exchange.
1 year ago
Jack in the box -
Had a conversation on this subject just recently. It is the devils work . . . .

So yeah . . . .
😏
1 year ago
MasterBear​(other butch) - Stockholm syndrome is not consent
1 year ago
structureme​(sub female) - This concept is very intriguing, but at the same time I would want to feel validated that I was serving my MASTER to the utmost of my ability and Beyond. This is also a scary concept as well for me. I thrive on mental DOMINATION!!!!!!!!!!
6 months ago

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