WHATS MISSING FOR ME
I would like to share my thoughts and how I feel on what is missing for me in this lifestyle; of what makes a good D/s and Master seeing a sub for all she is.
I love the mind of a sub, in seeing her true self in who she is from inside her own mind. I love the vulnerable side of her, for her to give up everything she fears, to being at my feet. To be so vulnerable and having no fear of who she truly is. When we, as Doms, Masters, etc, can show her that there is nothing to fear in what she offers and see her when she is the best version of her true self and in her own light, then we are truly the lucky ones for we get to see the most beautiful side of her; her at our own feet, submitting her everything, her mind, her body, and her soul.
When she can be true in her own self, you get the very best out of her and can see her for who she is truly meant to be.
When you see her for the person she is, giving her all in wanting to be the best sub she can be, only for you.
Showing her in your own true Dominance, to never be fake in who she is, to not hide herself, but to be true in who she wants to be and bringing all her walls down and nothing to hide. She takes on what you truly want in a sub, you teach her to never be ashamed of who she truly is.
To me this this the true meaning of what
Is when you finding your true sub.
"She stood before him just as she was made to be, no lies, no judgement, no fake smile. She showed him the storm that raged within her, the strength of her heart, the stubbornness of her will and the soul that burned like fire and he.... He took all she had to offer…saw the beauty amongst the chaos…stared every flaw, every doubt and every fear in the face. He saw her spirit and ran free with it…he showed her the fire that ran wild within his own soul and together… despite the storms of life… together they set each other ablaze and danced in the flames." Let me envelop your weary soul with the warmth of my body and heal the places that have been broken for far too long.
This is the form that makes a D/s so strong in seeing her at her best with out No walls up and her own vulnerability is shown of who she is.
If you can give this to a true Dom or Master and he sees you for who you truly are you blessed with finding you own self in him of what you both give each other.
Her own mind is the key. It's not a door to what she learned; from the knowledge of what she sees BDSM is, and the way on how to be a sub. When it comes to understanding she knows it, it stays in her mind, with 80% mental and 20% sexual. The key was for her to learn who and why she was a sub as she looks deep into your eyes to surrender her whole self to you, knowing in that you're going to look after her, to keep her safe every night in your arms. To know yourself of the true responsibility she has given you, to look after her needs and wants.
This sums up on what I see is truly missing on how I see true Dominance
Any man can grab a woman by her hair throw her on the bed and rip her clothes off,sure tire up and call her a bitch or a slut and have rough sex with her.
But that’s not true Dominance.
That’s Rough sex or even violent sex
If She’s into it if can be fun.
But thats still not True Dominance.
True dominance is to be able to whisper Softly into her ear 👂 as she Obediently remove her clothes.
Methodically one pice at a time
As you watch as she kneels before you
Offering her entire self to after
Willingly with out hesitation reservation
embarrassment or shame
She will show you her most Vulnerable self.
You will know noting makes her happy then to make you happy.
And to me that what missing when a lot don’t have a clue on what it is to be a sub in my eyes.