Like some old song by Buddy Holly was saying "I'm Lookin' For Someone To Love". Ok, excluding that part in the song where he's going to find someone else to "love" given that she is not there in that moment.
So, I'd like to find someone to love , with whom I could connect emotionally. It's not the kink aspect that I am really that interested, it's the mental connection. I'd like my partner to be freed of a lot of obligations that normally occur for women when in a relationships. To help her be able to focus her time as she wants, with me at her side fulfilling her needs. To share a lot of nice moments, learn more about her, share hobbies with her , try to make her happy.
I am open minded by a lot of things and I am sure that when that person comes along we can agree how things will be run. I do however need something important for the relationship to work. Love is what I need.