How Do You Do It?

The Kinky Poet​(other male) - The feeling of acceptance makes me feel I belong
Love and light T.K.P x

Bunnie - Beautiful question :)
My apologies, I’m feeling “flowery” this morning. When I feel like I belong, it feels like breathing the freshest, purest air deep into my lungs. The warmth of sunshine on my cheek early in the morning, watching the most breathtaking sunrise. Like snuggles whilst laying in bed under the covers. Deep conversation with those I cherish.
Belonging feels like being seen and heard and safe, regardless of what emotional mess I happen to be in. Ultimately it is a real connection on an intimate level, with those I have built the bridges to understanding with, leading us to an unconditional love for one another… not just in a lovers sense, but in a bond sense.

honeygirlie​(sub female) - THIS! You have explained what I've been trying to jumble out of my brain.

jaders - Idk- I want to answer this like others here. In a sense I agree. The feeling of being safe and not having to worry about every little thing you do or say creates a sense of belonging for me. It’s comforting to have those kinds of people in my life. However I do think I would feel a sense of belonging regardless because part of me feels like no matter what I belong on this earth and if I think about it that way then I can feel a sense of belonging as well. If I didn’t have all these wonderful people in my life- I would feel lonely as hell but i don’t know if it would take that away. Idk… just remember you do belong and there are like minded people out there. Hell you’re on the cage so you’re like the rest of us in some aspects. You belong. That’s the end of my rant. I’m going to go find food lol

Jade out 💚

RoseUndressed​(sub female) - For me, it's acceptance. Not being seen or understood - I think that goes beyond longing - but simply being accepted. For who I am. It allows me to flourish- to have the space to be more creative, quieter, more me. It has taken me a long time to meet my people- friends who just accept - I hope you find that too xxx

Elusive Vixen - In actuality I have really never felt that I belong, even with my own family. I feel like I’ve always had to mask my true self. I’ve had trust issues since elementary school and I’m always questioning if people really accept me or not. Somehow it seems almost every close relationship I’ve had has ended in some kind of betrayal. So I tend to question everyone who I come in close contact with. I want to be accepted for me and here I do feel more accepted than ever before. Do I still question?? Yes-how can anyone like me for me, when the mask I wear is totally removed? I hope it’s genuine, so far so good. I would love to meet my people without questioning my worth or their motives. Have a good day!

Elusive Vixen - I always question myself and ask-what’s wrong with me??