Reflection So far with the Cage.

2 years ago. November 7, 2022 at 8:36 AM

I registered on this site about 1.5 months ago.

So far I have come across many things, from some great people to some absolutely appalling people. I would honestly say I have had the pleasure of meeting a few, even say I respect them and have actually continued conversations outside of the cage and speak to them almost daily, you know who you are. On the opposite end of the spectrum, I have come across some very... interesting people to... from demanding to know the names of friends I speak to, Loving the fact I am brutally honest yet when I am honest with them they accuse me of gaslighting... I hate that word... such a bullshit word people throw out when they are intellectually dumbfounded and use it as an escape from feeling and looking socially inept. I've been ridiculed, I've been chastized because of my beliefs, my Philosophy, and that's ok! I do not need your approval nor will I ever seek it. You can just tuck that tail between your legs and go to the end of the line like a good boy/girl. Always remember... I don't judge you for wearing your diapers, playing with feces, drinking piss, whatever you are into I don't care... because honestly? Life is about doing what you enjoy and no one else should ever set your limits on that. I've been told pushing boundaries is not respecting someones boundaries. I feel this is debatable because I feel boundaries are put up for a reason to hide and/or protect themselves in some way therefore I believe in pushing those boundaries to inspire growth and to see the real person behind the layers that were built up. I've been told My very existence in many cases is a red flag, and that's ok... I'm debating on purchasing a flag outfit and draping red flags all over it to embrace it... I digress. Moving on I have come across subs that have been absolutely berated and bombarded by "doms" that feel they need to guilt trip and completely disregard the fact they are human beings at all... I don't even do that to my slaves whom I view as property... I've come across conversations where "Doms" openly admit they flat-out cut all contact when there is an amicable breakup... I myself still speak to 6 of the 8 girls I have owned in 21 years and check in with them monthly to ensure they are doing ok, and yes randomly I will get calls at 2-3 am because one of them may be having a panic or anxiety attack, or are in the ER crying uncontrollably and have no one. and yes I will take control and help them calm down. I have sat on skype with someone before while they were at their Ultrasound because they had no one I've come across many others that have a serious problem with the fact that I do help My previous girls when they need it... I had a conversation with a submissive once and a completely harmless conversation and the following day, not 24 hours later I'm told by 4 people I have a new girl. and apparently, she was approached as well by someone saying the same thing. I've had to stick up for others who blatantly list in their profile that they have different Mental issues that are beyond their control. I've read multiple times where people have mentioned other people being "crazy" for whatever reason at all. Just because someone has abandonment issues are scared for whatever reason, talks too fast, quick to anger, having their own flaws and faults does not make them crazy. Treat others how you wish to be treated. plain and simple. I've seen great inconsistencies from many around whether sub or Dom. My advice to you... BE YOURSELF AND STOP ADAPTING TO SUIT YOUR NEEDS. you are unique... be that way. Stop lying. I spoke to a "Gorean" on the website that supposedly owned a whole house of slaves... a harem... yet had no clue what the Philosophy was... had no clue the purpose of it. didn't know half of the positions and Had no references to prove shit... to you sir... fuck you stop harassing people in messages because you think you can be Gorean.

In closing...

I have learned quite a bit here and met some great people so far to be honest. I've read some absolutely amazing writing and followed a few blogs due to it. I've had some great discussions about Gorean positions, Protocols, and a plethora of questions from all angles. I've had people that I absolutely adore due to their intelligent and deep conversations. Sadly some of their ideals and values are far too different therefore do not speak with them anymore. However, I am still very glad to have met these people they are absolutely amazing great values and beliefs in themselves.

I will update more later.

Thank you.

Arthur.

Hammermon777(dom male) - I would have to agree with you100% I have lot of respect for Gorean !!! The sad thing is that TNG is more gray than black and white !!! We have to many people saying I’m a Dom you do it this way there’s you tube videos and talk shows that are shit too , test there are some that are good but a lot are just people playing roles not being real and truthful!!! Be you and be the best you can be learn from a mentor that has been through thick or thin this man is true alpha they all could learn something from you !!!

2 years ago

Gorean - Thank You for your kind words however I to have made plenty of mistakes so I deserve no pedestal I'm sure some of these subs and doms are simply going through the journey of learning, perhaps they will read the blog and think about it, possibly learn from it. Again, Thank you.

B L O N D I E(sub female) - I think you're an outstanding dominant and any girl would be lucky to be owned you. The fact that you keep in touch and still help your previous slaves would be a major reason I would want to serve and be owned by you. Anyone who says otherwise is an asshat. It really shows your character and you are one of the rare few who has that quality. Don't change for anyone. The people who matter will see this as your strength and a reflection of your beautiful heart and they will love and admire you for it. If anyone rejects you for it, they are only showing their own weakness and insecurity. I am grateful that you are here. You're doing us a service by educating us on an area of the lifestyle that too few people know and understand. So I thank you for that.

Gorean - I personally just feel that once you unlock someone's slavery internally it changes them in so many ways. I am the one that trained them and unlocked this so therefore I feel I am responsible to some capacity should something arise and I will always be there for them as long as my immediate family is taken care of. I feel the connection that comes with this lifestyle people come and go yes... but with the deep connection that accompanies it never really leaves you I feel that all d/s relationships should be more in tune with this... I feel doms and subs should spend more time studying their sub's. I don't mean their kinks, their turn ons their turn offs. how does their breath change when they are anxious? their heart rate? do they blink more when they are upset? sad? Mad? these are all things that can be signifiers to let you know there could potentially be something wrong with the person that gave themself to you. don't ignore it... don't just look at eyes, hair, tits and ass. look through them... see their soul... (for the deep relationships anyways, sadly many start and fizzle in days let alone a few months) Those people that have earned my collar they went through hell to acquire it around their neck they served me well until they did not. but the fact they gave themselves to me, their very life at one point I will always be their guardian to some capacity. Thank you for your kind words.

Submissively Your's(sub female) - My first, and only Dom to date, practices in the Gorean tradition. He stays in touch directly with the majority of His previous subs, and the few others, He follows from the periphery. He knows when they are/ are not doing well. And will then take appropriate action depending upon the circumstance.

And no....He is not a stalker......He is a caretaker and responsible for all the people He has chosen to be in His life.

It is a HUGE red flag in my opinion if a Dom does not stay in touch with previous subs barring any outstanding circumstances, of course.

There are exceptions.

And subs need to be aware that if a Dom is available for/ looking out for His previous subs, He most likely will do the same for them.

Gorean - Whoever he is, I would love to meet Him. Thank you for this.

I'mME - Hi Arthur,

I enjoyed your writing. The fact that you have friendships with your previous slaves is a testament to you and them.
It would be my wish to never fall out with any of my friends or someone who had something that captured a piece of my heart.

To the point, always the truth, how do you view women with the same who are similar in spirit?

1 year ago

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