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A discussion of all things domestic service related.
6 years ago. February 6, 2018 at 10:55 PM

Every night, before I go to sleep, I pray to the Marys - both of them, Virgin and Magdalene. It goes something along the lines of this:

“Holy Mothers, thank you for watching over me today. Thank you for stopping me from making an ass of myself when I’m certain there were many times I was on the verge of it. Please send me a Mommy Domme soon. May she be kind, caring, loving, affectionate, with a good sense of humour, kinda strict but not too much, understanding, good at communicating, patient, likes sex, totally into D/s, wants to participate in the community, wants to travel to leather events. If it’s not going to happen, I understand, please just give me a sign.”

I’m trying the soft sell first - I’m keeping my options open - but if it doesn’t look like there are any results from my efforts, and no signs saying that it is futile and I should just stop asking, I think I’m going to have to show up at church and light some candles - and by some, I mean burn the MOFO house down - and flip them a $20 in the process.

I keep saying Domme, but if I found a Daddy Dom who was a gentleman - which is rare, more likely impossible - who wanted more than online play or just a blow job on demand, I would be pretty happy.

While this is going on, I have a slow burning loathing in the back of my mind for all the shitty ass subs I keep hearing about. Like just the other day, my Domme friend told me about the time she punished her sub for being mouthy, by sticking her in the corner for a fixed amount of time, with a clothes pin on her tongue. Her sub then responded by not speaking to my Domme friend for three days - WTAF?!?!?

I said, “You know, if I had a Domme that loved me enough, and had the balls to do that, I would be in fucking heaven. I’d give my right arm for that!”

Because as it is, no one gives a rat’s ass if I’m mouthy, if I go to bed at a good time, if I take my pills, floss my teeth, drink enough water, fold my clothes - and truly, what I wouldn’t give for that. I’d fucking give my left ovary - which really isn’t much of a sacrifice to be honest, I mean, I’m not really doing much with it - for someone to give a shit about that, other than my inner Domme.

I sit thinking about all these subs that I have known who are just complete assholes, and yet, they have attracted awesome Dom/mes. How does that even fucking happen - I mean seriously - come on! They just shit on the dynamics they have, or take them for granted, and when the relationship ends, the Dom/mes are either so scarred they leave the lifestyle, or they never want a sub of that gender again, or their confidence is shattered, or something.

Thanks fucker! Do you know how many subs are out there who are sincere, and would want to treat a good Dom/me like freaking royalty, or like they are a precious jewel? Do you know what I wouldn’t give to be able to have a Dom/me to make breakfast in bed for, to run a bath for, to do the shopping for, to buy shoes for, to cut flowers from my rose trees for?

Do you know what I wouldn’t give to be able to say to my Dom/me “Mistress (or Master), where in the world would you like to live for the next 3 to 5 years?”

But no, that Dom/me you just hurt so badly that they might never engage in a dynamic again, got you - you selfish, knuckle dragging, troglodyte, arrogant, hot headed, short tempered, lazy, son of a motherfucking bitch shithead. It was all about you, your needs, what you wanted, someone dancing to your tune.

Fuck you and your unwillingness to communicate.

Fuck you and your whining.

Fuck you and your unreasonable, one sided demands.

Fuck you and your cheating.

Fuck you and your underhanded scheming.

Fuck you and your hiding behind your masks.

Fuck you and your withholding love.

Fuck you and your lying.

Fuck you and your ultimatums.

I wish I had the courage to track these fuckers down, and shit on their front porch.

Maybe I’m praying to the wrong people - perhaps I need to start knocking on Satan’s door - I have a soul to sell, I’m not doing much with it.

CSubmissive​(sub female){Daddys} - This goes both ways... I have heard horror stories from submissives in regards to Dom/mes.
6 years ago
UnrulyNerdGirl​(sub female) - I have my own horror stories - but that’s not the point. I, as a submissive, am tired of asshole subs seeming to attract awesome Dommes - how these shitheels do it is beyond me - and then ruining them - period. It’s not a debate, it’s not who fucks up whom more, this is me venting my own personal frustration from my perspective. It’s my blog, it’s not a democracy.
6 years ago
CSubmissive​(sub female){Daddys} - Understood... Just giving my opinion, even if unwarranted. Good luck Unruly.
6 years ago
Bunnie - Thank you for being the voice for this ?
6 years ago
Kal Foster​(dom male){felicia} - Damn girl! Don't hold back!
6 years ago
alawey​(sub female){(OWNED BY } - sweetie I truly understand y you are so frustrated. there are subs who don't understand at all. and all I can say is stay ur course there are good dom/me out there still. I know I have found mine. and I know u will find its also.

and maybe, just maybe one of these ungrateful subs will see ur post and see the light. but then again who knows if they can see themselves in it. . . but maybe they will....

stay true hun.
6 years ago
UnrulyNerdGirl​(sub female) - Thank you for your sentiments, they are greatly appreciated.

I know there are no guarantees in this life - I fully accept that there may very well be no one out there for me, but I keep hope alive just in case there is.
6 years ago
Asteria​(neither female) - This is an issue not only in the lifestyle. The point is that some people do not understand that relationships are not given once and for all and that it is give and take, not _only_ take.
6 years ago
CSubmissive​(sub female){Daddys} - Exactly my point Asteria.
6 years ago
bunnylissa1​(sub female) - I do agree with you to a point. Only cause my previous dom outwardly seemed to a lot like a great dom. And i was that overly needy bratty little. But it wasnt because i was ungrateful it was cause my needs weren't met only very few knew the whole story with me and him. And im sure he never admited to it. Idk i get the part of ungrateful subs it pisses me off but we also need to look at both sides to fimd out if they are really ungrateful or if just there needs arent being met properly. Not all dom/mes and subs are a good fit for each other. Could just be a bad fit but could also be a bad sub or a bad dom/mes in either case we dont really know till we hear all 3 sides of the story as my mom always says. His hers and the truth.

Youll find a good dom/me in time just sometimes it may seem like it will never happen. Best of luck and warm wishes smiles
6 years ago
UnrulyNerdGirl​(sub female) - I understand what you’re saying - but there is a difference between being ungrateful, and being malicious, gaslighting, cheating or lying. Ungrateful can easily be rectified or communicated - the others are just vindictive and hurtful.

As for the truth, I am speaking from a place where I personally observed what was going on - and while someone’s words can lie, actions can not. Yes, I do know you can’t always judge what happens, or what goes on behind closed doors, but there is no excuse for some actions - I don’t care how bad the relationship is, if a dynamic or relationship is so bad, just leave, period. Don’t engage in some cruel emotional war in the hopes of breaking down the other person.

That’s the point of my writing. Trust me, I have had my own share of bad Dom/mes - the worst financially used me, mentally and emotionally, and at times physically, abused me - but I left, I didn’t engage in some hurtful actions in retaliation.
6 years ago
bunnylissa1​(sub female) - I agree no one should be vindictive about it. Sadly people are. But all i am saying is we habe to open our eyes and ears a bit and im a little too optimistic lol i always try to find the good. But iget both sides of the spectrum. Smiles
6 years ago
SouthernFire​(sub female) - Try n be patient. You will find what you are looking for. It is a hard thing to do. I understand what you mean about bad subs causing great Domme/Dom's to be nervous to talk to another.
6 years ago
MissBonnie​(dom female){oz} - I dont know if I should hug you or high five you...but I bet that feels better out than in :) Hang in there
6 years ago
UnrulyNerdGirl​(sub female) - I usually get ‘I don’t know whether to hug you or spank you’ - so I’ll be greedy and take a hug AND a high five - LOL. Thank you very much :-).
6 years ago
MissBonnie​(dom female){oz} - LOL That works too! Both it is your blogs
6 years ago

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