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TopekaDom​(dom male)Verified Account

Tersely Pertinent

This blog is a place for me to post things to get them out of my head.

My writings give a hint of the way I view the lifestyle, both good and bad.

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2 weeks ago. March 14, 2025 at 11:11 AM

 

 

in your Bed?

 

I am just taking an informal poll, as I had an interesting discussion with some vanilla friends.  We were talking about sex and they wanted to know about the more kinky things we do.    Now kinky to these guys is like cowgirl fucking.    

 

So when describing various antics, they were asking how you did that in bed.    This, of course, led me to a realization:  I could not remember the last time I had fucked in bed.    

 

So I was wondering if this happened to others in the lifestyle.    Is your bed just for sleeping or do you have sex in it?

 

Discuss:

lilWolfie​(sub female) - Id say "bed fucking" happens. But it's more of a middle of the week hump or morning sex. Plus we added so many things to the bed for sex things! And most of the time it's very much not in the bed.
2 weeks ago
Zoneinlingo​(neither female) - Interesting.
2 weeks ago
SavannahLyn​(sub female)​{~Umbee~}Verified Account - i am in a state of flux in what i am and do currently.
But, i used to have a very staunch rule. my sleeping bed is for sleeping. i never let anyone in my sleeping bed but myself. Any partner work had to be in their bed, or another "bed" in the house (cause, yeah, sex in a bed... whatever surface is under us is a bed... )
2 weeks ago
Bunnie - Lol thank you for this! Recently I’ve come to realise how much I dislike fucking in a bed. It’s not something I had particularly thought much about, until it happened… we were “getting it on” and he was like “let’s move to the bed.” And I was like 👀… why?
I thought it was just me being, well, me lol. And was like, don’t be dumb, you can fuck anywhere. But the bed just feels so… boring and restrictive. Unless of course I’m tied to it :)
The one that made me laugh though… I was on a dating app and a guy asked me if I preferred to fuck with the lights on or off! I was like… umm… I don’t understand the question. You only fuck at night?! And why wouldn’t you want to see all the wonderful things happening?!?!
Ok rant over :)
2 weeks ago
DidiRN​(sub female)Verified Account - Ex was vanilla and only had sex in bed. I however am open to other places. As far as how often we rarely had sex, and since the split i have been celibate, for almost a year now.
2 weeks ago
MissBonnie​(dom female)​{oz}Verified Account - Whaaa? Wait you can do that in your bed too? ...hardly never at home LOL thanks for this I hadn't even thought of this (explains a few vanilla friends reaction to me explaining things lol) . We also fuck on beds a lot when we travel through, so I guess we do but not being our house it's not set up for anything. A undermatteress restraint always does the job. The walls never have anything to tie too and the floors EWWWW they are often nastier than I am without coffee. We do stay in hotels for two days a month due to Fly in, fly out work life but the other two weeks off we are lucky to even see the bed!
2 weeks ago

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