With the posting of the original DADT blog post (by a woman who I hungrily lust after), I thought I would give you another perspective.
(No. I'm not saying you can cheat on your spouse. Just fuck off with that.)
I have posted before on the fact I am married and my wife no longer participates in the lifestyle. Do to this, I have spent a good deal of time and effort making contact with submissives in and around my area. As I have also posted, all those efforts have not been affective.
The main cause of in my difficulties is the fact I am married.
Now I have always been honest in this fact. Either through posting on my varied profiles, or mentioning it in conversation, I have never tried to hide this particular fact. However, time and time again I have either been called a liar or just been assumed I am one due to other men being liars on the subject.
I have always understood the submissive's viewpoint and never pressed the issue. But here comes the really funny part: Not one of them has ever thought about or even asked whether they could speak with my wife.
Not
a
single
one
So here is my question: If given the chance, would you talk to a spouse about entering a lifestyle relationship with a married person?
Discuss:
(Disclaimer: This is assuming you would be interested in poly sort of relationship. Not that the spouse would enter into the D/s one)