As the title says.... Can I speak?
A strange thing to ask but recently I have had trouble expressing myself properly. Any one can ask me a question or my opinion on something, but when I answer or voice my opinion they don't like it! I make a joke comment and it's like I have murdered someone! I have been told that I am disrespectful to a Mistress who I respect fully! I know that if She was offended by my comment then She would have let me know bloody quickly!
Now... full disclosure time. I am a newbie to the lifestyle! I know I have much to learn. I know that I need to get out there and meet with other Dominants and submissives to gain a little knowledge from them in how to act and behave. And slowly but surely I will get there.
All I ask is a chance to explore this opportunity I have been given. I ask that Others, where ever they may be, or whatever their orientation is, or what side of the slash they are, to please be patient and non judgemental and to HELP and EDUCATE us newbies as we stumble and fumble our way through. I count myself lucky to have been taken on by a wonderful Lifestyle Mistress. In the short time I have been meeting with Her and been talking with Her I have learned so much. And in future as I get to Munches, Meets and Events, I hope to be able to be allowed the opportunity to speak and ask questions to those who know so much more than me, and without judgement or fear of ridicule
