PlusSzdBeauty(sub female)

Unapologetically Me!

***No judgment zone!!!***

I post what speaks to me. I like anything that makes me feel. I sometimes have questions or want to know how people think, as a whole outside of and within the lifestyle.

Your thoughts, experience and ideas please

5 years ago. November 2, 2019 at 6:57 PM

Do you have a contract for your sub(s)?

Do you as a sub have a contract?

Do you believe it is a good idea or not so much?

Is it something that all dynamics could benefit from?

What are some of the things you find are important to include?

TreasureMe(sub female){Consumed} - My Sir and I personally don't have a contract and don't feel the need to at this time. In that way, our dynamic is pretty relaxed and informal. But the door is always open for discussion in regards to soft limits to push, hard limits to add to, etc. We just focus on each other. Make the other a priority and there isn't a need to have it written down in a formal contract. Although I feel others could benefit from it if its necessary for them and their dynamic.

5 years ago

Bunnie - I would suggest slipping over to the forums to have a read, as well as the feedback you get here. Ironically, a sub has recently started a thread there, also asking for feedback about contracts... jinx! Lol.

Here’s the link...
https://thecage.co/phpBB/viewtopic.php?t=2014

5 years ago

PlusSzdBeauty(sub female) - Lol... Thank you! I will look into it

5 years ago

Performer(dom male) - I don't have a formal signed contract. However, I do have a fairly substantial checklist of conversation starters to cover a very wide range of BDSM and kink. I always go through the list with any potential partner and/or sub.

5 years ago

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PlusSzdBeauty​(sub female)

Unapologetically Me!

Your thoughts, experience and ideas please

PlusSzdBeauty(sub female)