4 years ago. June 17, 2020 at 12:09 AM
I was messaging someone outside of thecage. This was part of our conversation. What are your thoughts on his response? (He does view himself as a Dom)
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Firecracker(sub female){Collared}
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He has the wrong idea of what a Dom is all about. Yes, there is submission and pleasing from the sub to the Dom. But a real Dom does it to celebrate the Sub...each working together in harmony to make the relationship work correctly. A real Dom is truly focused on the Sub.
4 years ago
PlusSzdBeauty(sub female)
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He also messaged, “I feel like an imposter at times because I’m not into leaving marks or a rigger, I don’t really want to hurt someone.” I was like yea, you shouldn’t be calling yourself a Dom. You have no idea of the true nature and beauty of the connection and lifestyle.
4 years ago
PlusSzdBeauty(sub female)
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Maybe, I do think that he wants to be worshipped but in all of the wrong ways. He has no idea of the lifestyle and what it means to be a Dom or sub. I even mentioned doing some research and that was like a slap in the face to him.
4 years ago
Lion(dom male){Hazel Eyes}
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Sounds more like wanting attention in all aspects, physically and mentally. Have these babe's find me sexy and submit to me and celebrate me. Notice the me in there, a dominant is to worship their submissive, and in return a sub will worship their dominant. It's not a one sided mentality it's for both individuals, Just my thoughts.
4 years ago
PlusSzdBeauty(sub female)
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I completely agree! His view of the lifestyle and maybe even women in general is definitely warped.
4 years ago