Everywhere you look on kink community sites it seems you can't go but a couple inches without tripping over and exhibitionist. Exhibitionists are everywhere and I for one fully support them. To be entirely honest amateur home made girl next door type material is the prime go to when it's time for some self love and relaxation in my opinion. So please, all of you that do what you do, keep on doing it and the rest of us out there will keep on enjoying it.
Now that being said, as much of a voyeur as I am, when it comes to a partner I'm looking for something a little bit different, something a bit more selective. I'm looking for someone that I refer to as an exclusive exhibitionist.
So what is an exclusive exhibitionist? To put it simply, its a partner that enjoys being an exhibitionist, likes showing off, taking and sending pictures and videos, but instead of out in the open for everyone, it is exclusive for just their partner. I don't mind the posting of flirty or suggestive pictures, that's all in the spirit of good fun and enjoying yourself. Anything intimate however, with my partner I would want and expect that content to be exclusive and stay between us.
When people disagree with me on this it's often because they don't see things in the same way that I do. For me, more than anything, this is an aspect of shared and mutual respect. If I wouldn't be willing to share my partner with someone in person then why should I be willing to share their body with anonymous people online? For those that are out there that enjoy those kinds of things, more power to you, it's just not for me.
The exclusive exhibitionist has proven difficult to find for me through my years of searching. Of course I've had the occasional flings and short lived dynamics and even a couple longer ones, but none that have lasted. Who knows, maybe my expectations are unrealistic in today's world. If that's the case, I guess I'm now an old timer stuck in the past, but I hope that's not the case. Here is to hoping that everyone can find their exclusive exhibitionist if that's what they are looking for.
Oh and if mine is out there somewhere, you've got my full permission to come forward and send me a message, I think I've waited long enough to find you.
