Gotcha.
No it wasn't me. It was my dear college roommate. This is her 3rd marriage. Her 1st two were creeps and cheated on her. One even cheated with her own sister-in-law for Pete's sake.
She is the most beautiful woman inside and out and deserves the best earthly husband God can give her. And she finally got him this time around.
They grew up on the same street, their parents were friends, he is 2 years younger, and he had a crush on her growing up.
They met again at a party last year with mutual friends and hit it off so well, that they stayed in touch and their relationship developed over the past year. They decided to marry and today was that day.
My only disappointment was that I was not invited. I was a bridesmaid in her first two weddings but this time I heard nothing from her by way of invite.
I thought it was odd so I pm'd her on FB last night and wished them a happy marriage. She responded right away and said that she didn't want to force me to drive 40 min to watch her get married. She lives east of me.
So isn't it the prerogative of the invitee whether to attend or not? I think she thought I was ill because the last time we talked, and caught up, I mentioned that I was seeing an oncologist and was anemic. So I guess she must have thought I was in a bad way and it would have been difficult for me to drive.
Anyway, in spite of being very happy for them, I do sense a small cloud over me of not being there to support her and meet her husband.
But alas, I've seen her get married before, so I guess that counts for something. And I told her that I want pictures of the blessed event!!!! LOL!
