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Just things I think about or feel from time to time either from experience or observation.
3 months ago. September 23, 2024 at 8:59 AM

I've contacted my gynecologist and am awaiting a reply but thought I'd ask here as well in case anyone has had this problem and has already figured out what to do about it.

While doing my first task for countrySir, I encountered a bloody vaginal discharge on the 6" (4.5" shaft) dildo I was using. This is the 2nd time it's happened.

Thrusting seems to be causing this whether hand held or mounted on a service and riding it. I use Replens cream applicators to insert lube in my vagina and Replens from the tube to hand apply to the oitside entrance. I also lube the dildo. I initially have some pain inserting the dildo but once seated inside and thrusting there's no pain.

However, when I remove the dildo, there is a bloody discharge on the underside of the shaft. I'm not sure if I'm tearing something inside or not. I try not to be as aggressive as an excited man might be but still this happens. And the discharge continues for awhile even after removing the dildo. 

Anyway, does this problem sound familiar to anyone? I am not a virgin but I haven't really had much sex in life and my younger body never did this. But I'm not yet sure what a menopausal 72 year body can handle. I sure as heck don't want this to be a sexual problem for Sir and I. I am about 10 years older than he.

Thanks in advance.

 

Update from research: Post Coital Bleeding

Bunnie - A personal question… not something you necessarily need to answer, but something to consider: Do you get regular Pap smears? Might be worth getting checked out just in case?
3 months ago
Blondie​(sub female){Collared}Verified Account - I second what Bunnie said and also maybe try different lube. You may have an allergy to what you are currently using.
3 months ago
CapnRick​(dom male)Verified Account - Excellent advice from two of the more knowledgeable Cagers around!!
3 months ago
flitter'fly​(sub female){His} - First off.
Congratulations 👏

And on to Ypur question.
Definitely see a gyno.
It's probably something simple.
But best put your mind at ease.
And rour Dr. Also may be able to address any issues and or give you some help in what best to use.

Good luck and happy you have found another. 😊
3 months ago
lambsoneVerified Account - Thank you everyone. Yes this has happened with other lubes as well, but I think perhaps some experimentation in that area with more brands would be a good idea.

I'll definitely request a pap smear when my doctor responds. She didn't do one at my exam last December, she only looked inside. I haven 't had one for many years.
3 months ago
Beautiful eyes​(sub female){Taken} - As women get older, because we stop producing estrogen. Our vigina walls thin and during sex it can cause some bleeding especially if it has been a while. However it is best to get it checked out. Water based lube is best. Xx
3 months ago
lambsoneVerified Account - A water based lube was what I started with but it would dry up too fast and would have to be reapplied on the dildo throughout use.
My gynecologist last year suggested cooking oil which I haven't tried yet. I have also used KY Jelly.

Right now I'm trying Replens with an applicator for the vagina. It is supposed to be effective for 3 days. I use it from the tube to lube the dildo. It's a cream.

With all of them I bled, so it definitely must be the dry menopausal vagina.
3 months ago
CapnRick​(dom male)Verified Account - I almost hesitate to even get back into this topic, but you might try ordinary grocery store cocoanut oil....Just a thought.
3 months ago
lambsoneVerified Account - That's an interesting thought CapnRick, thank you.
3 months ago
CapnRick​(dom male)Verified Account - A jar of it has a permanent place in my Dom's toy kit. Seems to have no side effects, tastes okay, and lasts a good while.
3 months ago
lambsoneVerified Account - Thank you for the further explanation.
3 months ago

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