Sado Promise to a Maso, It's a fundamental part of who we are. Giving pain is very much something that I need but it's crucial to me that the person I'm sharing the pain to need it. Exchanging pain forges a deep connection not just during the exchange, but afterward during the aftercare. You don't have to be maso or sado but even if you like soft stuff everything needs to be agreed on with connection and feeling with being aligned cause you want to know if you can trust this person. Figure out what you like and don't like that person respects your limits and wishes two people to exchange pleasure that the bond both share. no one can just beat you it needs to be taken slow and worked up to. Use the imagination and play to stay together and keep it going read erotica go to museums and art places have erotica look into taboos you may like. know book what you have to do your do your own as long its respect. But also use safe words. Anyone who tells you they want no limit person someone who is not right for you needs a safe sane connection. If does not feel right then its no still a no then best to say hey we need to stop do something else.
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