Not all pain is the same. Just sharing. Take what you feel however, it takes you to find your own.
I might enjoy pain but nothing that bad I will explain. This breast device only pinches the top of the skin I never dig in that far maybe some like it but any toys and devices need to be cleaned things can only be temporary for so long it is deep and the Dom would have to meditate the sub with stuff nothing permanent and the Dom would only do on parts that others can't see and the body can not be hit every were cause injury good to learn were to hit not to.
I had red and bruises on my bust but nothing to make it bleed never would I go that far its only the top layer of the skin just like when you hit the knee in the doorway it leaves a bruise that will fade over time. Gags some have holes in them you just have to find the right size not all gag balls will fit everyone's mouth gotta get the right one.
Needles but only on the top layer nothing deep like putting the needle on top later of the top of your nail. Everyone has a different pain level not all the same. And if you get Red and bruises Dom needs to put some cream so it heals and take breaks from the paddle or caned for a few minutes at a time depending. Only way I learned to love pain with a hood on but it has holes and gag you still talk and can breathe you still see out and can breathe Dom still sees you and checks on you even if you like sensory derivation still do it safely.
Most of us might also like to be locked in a little tight with device stuff but not too tight you still need to breathe. Even with a corset get some made for you wear a little loose but wear little tight but enough to breathe and only wear so long.
Tried Electro does not hurt it's just a vibration but not all Electro is the same depending on the unit of level ya it makes Twitch all about going to do it's like your sex parts are sensitive going to make you jump til you feel a sensation to it. The posture collar that another thing that will keep standing up straight and keep your neck up. Pain can not just be inflected needs to be a passion with romance arousing the mind and teasing the body to tease the person's parts to get the parts aroused that the body begs for pain and pleasure and inflicting pain. Cuffs and restraints being tied up don't do it too tight try to move your Sub around and allow them to move around freely why can only leave someone so long in a potion the body circulation needs to move around. The sub should always have a spare key if they need to get out for safety. Good to practice safety everything talked about and agreed on beforehand with the person you know earned your trust and respect both ways.
Pain should never be out of anger it can ruin a bond of trust that is breaking trust everyone has feelings so if you not having the best day take a break get some air take some time for space re balance. A sub can pick out things the Dom can use and try if don't like the next this is how you make check list and explore more into it.
Sex does get me at first has to be a feeling and a connection with understanding not everyone for everyone but you explore with a friend or companionship til turns into more cause you gotta start with friends and keep building something together.
When I got all into this was only training was not having sexual intercourse was only to help train for the present timing the sex was saved to be reserved that bit more old school but they did use toys some things should be forced on people cause sex should only be your future partner you have a great connection, not the trainer I guess it depends for everyone but some want to safe for the right person. But good to practice safe sex think before you leap.
Never give up your desires but save for the right time don't get just get horny over attachment grow a get invested emotionally invested before getting hooked. Keep it in moderation time and place for it. The only thing that I could say to extreme people putting hooks in the back of their spine wrapping around the bones is more a bit of nono I have seen but looks like they going to rip the skin then they hang from it ya some things should be done. So the things I said before are not that bad the skin-bone hanging is more like never going there.
You just need to find what works for you but do it with someone take it slow nothing can be dependi should be someone done research or trying on yourself or has little experience don't have to be an expert but keep growing and learning practice till you get the hang of it but everyone grows and evolves. Aftercare is a must playing doctor and nurse both Dom and Sub need. Safe words and safe and sane need limits and keep them nothing no limits you are human be better than that don't need to be rushed to the ER. Have fun be safe.
