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What does a collar really mean to you?

To the people associated with our D/s Community a collar exhibits profound feelings of respect, intent, and more.
Unlike a ring on the finger which most often says ( I am Married, don't ask) a collar may be more intense than any ring. Collars come in many shapes, styles and of course sizes. Her collar may be a simple gold or silver chain, or may be a profound as a steel, platinum or solid gold accent bearing the name of her owner. Collars can and many times are the very jewelry associated with submission and ownership. To be "COLLARED" in a ceremony in front of your D/s friends, or family is a profoundly unique and special social occasion. Next to allowing yourself to be tattooed or branded, few signs of absolute submission can be paramount to these.

Women who accept the great responsibilities of becoming the wearers of such a permanent mark, are to be socially, emotionally and physically raised to a higher degree of professionalism and acceptance that the norm. Collaering should never be taken lightly, as it cannot be divorced in the social manner. Only the owner has the ability to allow the collared person to remove her collar and to set her free , if and only if she desires to move away from her obligation. D/s people take a collar much more serious than any marital ring. Some females love the big rock on their hands - but what does that really represent - a lifeless value? Wearing another's mark of slavery is profoundly much more emotionally deeper than the value of a stone. Monetary values mean little to most practitioners of D/s, while true ownership mean life and happiness, accepted and desired. DO NOT BREAK THE BOND!
1 year ago. December 21, 2023 at 3:38 PM

Hello to all of you Salacious Perverts, and a very Merry Christmas to all!

As I sit here nearing the holidays in front of my computer, I begin to ponder how many of you are doing the holiday gig alone.

Oh don't get me wrong - I've been there myself several times over the years as well.  Either on the computer, sitting in front of my TV by my fireplace, or looking at the tree I decorated myself.  My thoughts go back to the time I was married, or single with a girlfriend and how nice it was to converse, hold and enjoy holiday sex together. 

But, then reality sets in and I once again am alone.  Oh, I am not complaining, there are advantages to being single!  There is no one around to remind you to pick up after yourself, complain about hairs in the sink, or if you are a woman - the amount of make-up cluttering up the bathroom.  Guys - remember to put the toilet seat down, or suffer the ire of a high-pitched scream in the wee hours of the night, and the stern words that follow! Girls - Tampons do flush when you pull the handle down, and favorite bras or panties hanging on the shower rod - to us, dudes, appear to be tactless.  All the fun of a relationship now brings a smile to our faces!  

Holiday shopping is easy when you're just shopping for one or our parents if they are still with us! Today we order it all online, which makes shopping so much easier with no further interactions, even gift-wrapped at an extra charge!  Ahh the day when we marched endlessly through the local malls. We wondered what to get her/him, and will it be indeed what they wanted? Yes, the single life can be grand - but do we really miss the hassles of arguments, long ago, which today seem immature, asinine, or a power struggle? Were these "fights" really worth the damage to any relationship?  Compromise you say?  Not me at 18, 19, 20 or even 28!   Age brings us the realities of life, love, and sorrow.  Losing family or friends scars our hearts, just as badly as a nasty breakup! 

Today as I sit in front of this miracle we call our smartphones and computers  - I have to wonder how many single people like myself are thinking of the warmth it brings to the heart,  as you snuggle up with a woman or man you love and care about, by the crackle of a fire with a nice glass of wine!   Ahh the Holidays - God Bless, a time of depression for some, a time of love, life, lust, and good fortune for the lucky. 

I have loved, danced, and enjoyed, several great ladies throughout my decades of life, and look back at some who left an indelible mark on my mind, and heart, and wonder where days are today.  Special ladies who wore the corsets I bought for them, loved the heel, PVC, leather, and Latex outfits, or the harnesses I placed them in!   Oh, how they struggled, danced, and built the heat in me, by just being the woman they are, sexy, warm, teasing, and flirtatious.

I miss this one lady whom I think of often!  Corseted, dressed, and lying near my Christmas Tree, waiting for the joy about to be bestowed upon her - the warmth of two bodies enjoying God's gift of pleasure as she waits for Santa to Cum!  LOL!

Well - maybe next year this ole Dom will be a bit luckier. 

Jack in the box - I feel ya man 🍻
1 year ago
LatexHer​(dom male) - Thanks, Dude! These can be great times or hard times for us single, widowed, or divorced people. How I look at life today is not how I once looked when I was 20, indestructible, and imature! Just wondered as I pondered my being, if there are others brave enough to speak their peace on this site. So many with incredible technology in their hands - can't find to theme to read or comment! Thanks, Much - and have a Merry Christmas!
1 year ago
Jack in the box -
Grand parents are dead, parents are dead, friends been dropping like fly's, and my kids hate me - such is life, right?
but yeah, Im alone too. Its not really that big of a deal for me - something I do miss however is the "ole timey" christmas'
deep snow and eggnog, and sleigh rides - oranges and nuts on the kitchen table and a fire that actually meant warmth.
Far from the commercial christmas of today.
1 year ago
SoaringFree​(sub female) - On Christmas day I am alone, so my tradition is to go to a movie, then pick up Jack in the Box, because they are the only thing open. This fills my day so my head and heart have less quiet time :)
1 year ago
Jack in the box -
You know im always open for you babe 😏
1 year ago
trappedperhaps​(sub female) - Maybe
1 year ago

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